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What women want and don't want in FLR

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The things women want from men in FLR from greatest to least

     Of all the polls we have taken most have been positively answered because we offered the most likely things women would find positive. This does not mean we did not explore the negatives, we just did it in a constructive way. because we now have 140,000 answers in our database we thought it would be fun to publish the winners and losers - it is unlikely that these percentages will change greater than 2% in the future. The tallies below are positive -> negative, so when a woman answers any part of the question positively we tally it as on the positive side. Answers such as yes, it depends, sometimes, only in play are all positive types of answers.. The negative tallies are just negative answers such as no, nope, never. and yuck. Remember both positive and negative answers have disclaimers and conditions that differ between individuals, a woman may answer positively but have an idea in her mind about conditions and limits.

     The highest "absolute idea" women loved was "I want him to appreciate me openly" at 98%; followed closely by "I want him to ask me what help he can be" at 97%. The least loved ideas by women were "I want him to watch me with another man/woman" (the cuckolding fantasy) at 52% outright rejection and "I want him to dress in feminine clothes" (sissification and humiliation) with 40% outright rejection. The take away is some things are universally feminine which are very attractive to women in FLR, and those things with high out right rejection are outside the bounds of most every FLR except perhaps for special circumstances.

Positive trends show things women want

Men are advised lavish these things on their mates. For women to be positive about something over 90% of the time means is can be common place and practiced in almost every relationship.

  • 100% positive
    • I want him to appreciate me openly
    • I want him to ask me what help he can be
    • I want him to seek my approval
    • I want him to seek my advice
    • I want him to be obedient to me
    • I want to control our Life Direction - FOOD GROUP
    • I want FLR benefits
  • 99% positive
    • I want him to desire me sexually
    • I want him to keep a nice home
    • I want him to make himself attractive for me
    • I want him to do the housework
    • I want him to be a confident gentleman
    • I want to control Household Chores - FOOD GROUP
    • I want final say in our decisions
  • 98% positive
    • I want him to comfort me
    • I want him to do errands for me
    • I want him to reveal his inner fears
    • I want to control his Free Time - FOOD GROUP
    • I like the thought of leading a man
    • I want FLR pampering
    • I want him to prove his desire to serve me
  • 97% positive
    • I want him to be vulnerable to me
    • I like the thought of dominating a man
    • I like the thought of controlling him
    • The thought of commanding him
  • 96% positive
    • I want him to greet me at the door
    • I want him to rub my feet
    • I want him to fetch for me
    • I want to control Sex - FOOD GROUP
    • I want to choose his grooming style
    • I like the thought of managing our life
  • 95% positive
    • I want to control Finances - FOOD GROUP
    • I want him to train him
  • 94% positive
    • I want to choose his clothing style
    • I want to punish him

Negative trends show things women don't want

Men are advised to avoid these things because of the negative impression they have on women. Remember you need to be making a positive impact on your relationship or it will suffer. Just because you want something does not means she does. Look at it like this, you've dropped your candy on the ground and it is 52% covered with dirt - do you eat it?

  • 52% negative - TOXIC
    • I want him to watch me with another man/woman
  • 40% negative - TOXIC
    • I want him to dress in feminine clothes
  • 33% negative - TOXIC
    • I want him to wear a slave uniform
  • 32% negative - TOXIC
    • I want him to serve me/my girlfrends
  • 29% negative
    • I would consider outside help with training
  • 28% negative
    • I want him in bondage for prolonnged times
  • 25% negative
    • I want to choose his friends
  • 20% negative
    • I want him to initiate sex with me
  • 19% negative
    • I want him to wear a chastity device
    • I want him in cuffs and/or chains
    • I want absolute obedience always
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Women were asked
I like the thought of managing our life?
26% 3% 71%
 
 
 
In Some Ways No Yes

*on-going poll requested of women

97% of women like the idea of managing the couples lives. Add this to the 99% of women interested in having the final decision in the couples lives and it speaks volumes about how women feel.

 
Women were asked
I like the thought of changing him?
34% 11% 55%
 
 
 
In Some Ways No Yes

*on-going poll requested of women

Women think highly of the idea of changing their men. 89% of those polled were positive about it. So another strong motive is a woman's desire to control their environment and their men.

 
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