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So when it comes to what they call the five food groups, you will both have an understanding of who is in charge of what correct? So these five food groups include finances, free time, household chores, direction in life and sex. I wonder what level of female led relationships control which food group? Such as at a level 2, I doubt that you would have control over what he does with his free time where with sex, you probably have more control than he does at the lower levels.
Author: 2010-12-29 16:27:00 [reply]
Yes Vickie, this is correct. You need to think of everything on levels. It's not all or nothing in other relationships so it's not going to be that way in a female led relationship. You aren't always going to have either no control over how he spends time or all control over how he spends his time. You can have anywhere in between the two. Also remember that just because you may have full control, it doesn't mean that he doesn't participate. Every case is different which will depend on what is the best for both of you. Say, for instance, you control all of the 5 food groups aside from sex.
Reply by: 2010-12-29 16:27:57 [reply]
Moderation is the point and making agreements that work for you - the reason FLR is tainted is because of the kink, women make very good leaders and everyone can enjoy the kink too but we all need to own FLR not leave it up to the internet porn people. Women should share how they lead so we can normalize the conversation.
Author: 2010-12-29 16:40:18 [reply]
So far my husband and I have fallen into this pretty easily. I think it might be easier for us b.c I am home so naturally some things fall into my domain. I pay the bills, make the household decisions, etc. I am beginning to have more of the lead in the direction our lives are taking. We are trying to bring more "fun" into the bedroom, but it isn't always a turn on for me to be the person instigating.
Author: 2011-01-01 16:28:12 [reply]
JustWondering Develop an erotic ritual that emphasizes your control, can be done frequently, and allows you to go with the flow. Your only decision is whether or not to do it or what variation to use on a given evening. Step 3 of Retraining in Articles has some ideas to think about in planning the ritual.
Reply by: 2011-02-22 17:23:54 [reply]
JustWondering If he has surrendered control of sex (the food group) you can dictate to him how things will go or if he is interested you can discuss it as a couple and get his cooperation. Man men enjoy starting sex when they know it is what you want. I get the feeling that some women think fun sex ends with FLR, quite the opposite, it can generate fire.
Reply by: 2011-09-21 16:22:54 [reply]
Interesting what should be LEVEL 1 then?
Author: 2016-01-22 07:19:55 [reply]
ASSTEFF Level 1 is not much different from a male led relationship. Both partners are relatively equal in decision making, interests, and sex. She may provide some control but only because he is asking for it and she wants to please him, not because she has an interest in FLR. She allows him to pamper her and do more chores but both are left unsatisfied and wanting.
Reply by: 2016-07-31 20:15:35 [reply]