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Author: Admin 2010-12-10 18:24:12    [reply]
Reading the polls I get the impression that women like submissive men about 40% of the time. So the majority want men either confident or strong. Personally I find submissive women mousy and uninteresting after a while. But they do make good servants when their life is fulfilling. The four women I met dating on-line that told me they wanted to become slaves to their man were all interesting from a clinical and experimental standpoint but I don't think I could enjoy them very long as mates. So it come down to this, If I get a submissive women she would need to be a servant not a mate and I would want a mate too. How controversial is that?

Reply by: Victor Ell 2010-12-29 17:11:17    [reply]
I feel like the submissivness takes away everything I found romantic about my boyfriend. After he asked me to have a FLR and I read all the stuff on it I don't think that I can find any of it romantic. I want to be wined and dined, not the other way around.
Author: Delilah 2011-01-01 16:09:53    [reply]
If it pleases you to be wined and dined and you are having him do that for you to make you happy, then you are already being the female that leads the relationship. By asking him to cater to your needs he is being submissive already.

Reply by: JustWondering 2011-01-01 16:23:35    [reply]
I like that reasoning Delilah, it is so natural to behave that way

Reply by: Admin 2011-01-01 17:16:09    
The type of subtle dominance that Delilah describes is exactly the way my relationships have developed with Women. They want me to open their doors, walk just behind them, offer my arm, pull out their chair, sit when they sit and stand when they stand, pick the resaurant and the movie (God forbid i make the wrong choice) and provide them with their ideal romantic evening and night. In doing this, i feel Her pleasure with me and am fulfilled as a submissive.
Author: Guest 2011-01-25 14:06:55    [reply]
Guest I had to laugh at the end of this note...the small i instead of the capital I was the only thing I saw submissive about it. I think that opening doors, offering an arm, puling out the chair, etc. is just good manners. I probably would rather have a say in the restaurant unless he knew me very well and the movie too. However, he would never take me to a horror film. I believe that a man who chooses to be submissive is strong and confident. I don't want one who is a mousy submissive.
Reply by: Victoria 2011-02-01 10:54:17    [reply]
for the women who likes the submissive type, kneel next to where she is sitting and tell her you want to give her the perfect Valentine. Ask her what she wants and get excited to do it for her. Give your whole heart to get in your effort and you know what, you'll get the same back.
Author: Gwen 2011-02-11 10:06:00    [reply]
Gwen I agree, you get what you put into it.
Reply by: Usaffirefighter2003 2012-01-22 13:00:36    [reply]
I love the duality I have. It is a kick to see the same man who a few hours ago was in black fatigues with an selective fire carbine hanging off his tac vest who is now kneeling and kissing my feet. It gives me an awesome kick! I would not like him to be a total wuss all the time, I like that when we go out, we both carry our selves with swag and both of us are in control of our environment.
Author: Sarahsmiles 2012-03-18 22:19:17    [reply]
Some of the ladies here, respectfully, have it wrong. Men who submit are not weak for submitting. They are strong and love you enough and are strong enough to give themselves to you. It is a different type of strength than simple "swagger" which, I'm afraid to say, is not strength at all.
Author: Guest 2013-10-04 07:15:29    [reply]


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