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For me the first three days of a new regimen will require a device to initiate. Often I can manage it myself, but it is usually better for her to have the control over the lock/unlock. Once this burn in period is done, I am much better able to maintain it. Usually, the attitude towards FLR improves dramatically once this burn in period is done. It does suggest, that my optimal course would be her management of a state of perpetual chastity with periodic maintenance releases.
Author: Chris68 2011-08-22 04:19:20    [reply]
I have neen in chastity for 1 week now, I know I see this posted everywhere, but this has been the best week if my 13 year marriage since the first week of my marriage. Im starting to understand how her controlling my release causes my brain to return to the courtship period. She use to say all the time "I wish it was like when we were dating" . I have pleasured her almost every night or morning this week and she has been in control telling me "ok no more, your done now get me" whatever she asks for. We have talked about this and she wants to finish in her but she sees the benifits already, I dont argue with her anymore because I no longer have to worry about social norms that I think the world exspects me to fulfill. I am submisive by nature and love having a woman who is a leader (she says stubborn) by nature. The constant state of ecstasy I feel for her it's worth it all. Im chasing her around like a teenage boy who lost his "V" to his first love. I will do anything tip please her so she will let me have the intimacy I so crave from her. I'm in love with my wife and it's the best feeling in the world. Thus may not be for everyone but if you know drop down inside that your wife is the reason your household runs correctly, you might want to stop fighting nature and let go of the pseudo-control you are holding onto. Once you do out will be like the weight of the world has been lifted from you. And it's very erotic. I get turned on just smelling her neck now.
Author: Shmeed 2012-04-22 10:19:45    [reply]
Shmeed men tend to experience the same thing but after two weeks the stress kicks in and they often whine. I am happy for your relationship. You both need to practice controlled release to keep this working.
Reply by: Prickly Pear 2012-04-23 14:54:21    [reply]
Day 7. My first week. Except for Sunday when TerriAnn wanted to use me, I`ve had the cage on for a full week. Much of the novelty has finally worn off, today has been the first day that I`m not constantly thinking about the device. I`ve had to tape the lock down so it doesn`t tap as I walk, and the next time I`m allowed to take it off I need to leave the little middle bridge off because it constantly pinches. For the first time in years I`m having night time erections again. And now I`m not fantasizing every morning. I`ve been better around the house and in loving TerriAnn, but she`s told me not to get pushy so I`m trying to remain adult about this. I think what I still like most about living with a chastity cage is that TerriAnn has all the keys. Giving up control of my most private concern gives me a wonderful sense of submission and sharing. And yes, I know I can wiggle it out if I need to, but I haven`t and it`s the symbolism that matters. At any rate, she`s hidden two keys in the house and keeps one on her key ring, and I hope she thinks of me whenever she sees it. - edited by staff [reason: 10 points awarded for this post - a good real life experience]
Author: TerriAnn`s 2012-08-29 13:59:28    [reply]
Day 9. TerriAnn let me spend one night without the cage. We have a screened-in porch with a pair of camping cots and when the weather is nice we like sleeping out there. That night it was just so muggy, out and inside the house, that the ring was cnstantly irratating me and I couldn't sleep. So she allowed me out. I replaced it after bathing the next morning. I've also discovered that tight underwear is now out for me. I've always worn bikini panties (men's and women's but not because I look good in them, I assure you), but yesterday I wore one of my especially tight pairs. It, well, it was less than comfortable. Today I went commando, mcuh better. Final note to self: skin lotion. Umm, nice....
Author: TerriAnn`s 2012-08-31 14:54:23    [reply]
TerriAnn`s Going commando, ouch. Suggest from experience that you do internet search on "men's pouch briefs". These help keep everything in place.
Reply by: Motleyfoool 2014-12-14 06:55:33    [reply]
I am on day 2 of my first week in chasity my wife holds the keys. We were doing orgasm control without a device for a month. Which went well. I bought the device doring that time , when it came in the mail she wasn't happy about it. After a long at night discussion it was ok'd to be used. I am trying to figure out how to hand the gym and fitted pants. How long does it take to really get used to wearing it ?
Author: Bumsumtime 2014-12-12 15:54:32    [reply]
Bumsumtime There are loads of info on the chastity net sites about this. In the end it should be comfortable and able to be worn most times. Otherwise it is not a suitable device for long term wear. In fact, after a few days you should forget you have it on.
Reply by: Motleyfoool 2014-12-14 07:01:16    [reply]
Motleyfoool I am wearing the (bird cage) it's seems a little big and heavy my left testy gets a pain some times when sitting. Between day 2&3 it was unlocked for sex, it was put back on in the morning I have read that you forget that it is on but the weight of this makes me think different
Reply by: Bumsumtime 2014-12-14 10:58:12    
Motleyfoool The one I have (this is not forum to publicize any vendor) is steel but also with a very short cage, consequently it is very light. I think one of the common problems is that many of these things are too long. The extended weight further from the torso adds to the problem.
Reply by: Motleyfoool 2014-12-14 20:07:24    
It's to long I bout a new one today (
Author: Bumsumtime 2014-12-14 20:49:00    [reply]
I think its to long which adds the weight. I bought a plastic one which I shorter in length so hopefully when I gets to the house I see a differance in fit andfeel for long term wearing. I also think it will fit better under clothes. I go to the gym 3 to 4 days a week. This is going to be fun tomorrow morning
Author: Bumsumtime 2014-12-14 20:53:51    [reply]
Today is my 7th day of 24/7 . I new device should be getting here today, hopefully a lot lighter.
Author: Bumsumtime 2014-12-17 08:39:51    [reply]

 

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