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Discussing Issues in Female Led Relationships

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It is to early to begin organizing but a good time to begin discussing the idea of forming a world organization to advance female led relationship as a relationship model. It would be a natural way to move FLR into the main stream
Author: VickLLT 2011-02-16 06:00:40    [reply]
VickLLT When we first began thinking about developing aboutFLR.com, we expressly agreed to take back FLR from the fetishes, professionals prostitutes, and porn industry which dominate it on-line. This would be a great way to normalize this subject and continue to understand the dynamic in a healthy positive way.
Reply by: Ben 2011-02-16 06:06:57    
VickLLT Yes I agree, one of our goals was to open the dialogue to those who love the ideas behind women leading men and feeling empowered to do so and to help men become fulfilled as partners to women who want to lead them. WOAFLR or something like it is a good idea after a year or so of promotion.
Reply by: Michael 2011-02-16 06:13:53    
VickLLT At least as important is getting FLR regularly discussed in the mainstream media. By that I mean womens' magazines, newspaper relationship advice columns, reports of sex researchers (many of whom know nothing about FLR and do no research on it), talk shows, top-selling books, and movies. I think the rise of FLR is a big unreported story. FLR will be mainstream when FLR couples and experts appear on Oprah and there are movies about it on Lifetime.
Reply by: Nerd 2011-02-22 17:45:24    

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A wiseman once told me that EVERYONE has something worth listening too and when you listen enough you will get smarter. We value the ideas and opinions of our readers on the topic of "WOAFLR - World Organization to Advance Female Led Relationship. "True genius resides in the capacity for evaluation of uncertain, hazardous, and conflicting information." Winston Churchill (British Orator, Author and Prime Minister during World War II. 1874-1965)

I just found this place on the internet and I like the way that you are approaching this. Not all of us want to be locked into a certain group and I think that this is a way to do that. I think that the end result is if in the relationship BOTH people are Happy. It doesn't matter how a couple reaches Happiness as long as they do. We all have things that we like and dislike but in the end if this is done in small steps it will grow : )
Author: Guest 2011-04-06 11:32:49    [reply]
I see that this site recommends that men read romance novels and feminist erotica to learn about womens' desires. Some ideas move into the mainstream through fiction and art. Is there a sub-genre of romance novels and "chick flicks" that are focused on FLR's? That might be a way to help move the FLR idea into wider attention. It might be even better if the "chick flicks" were based on real couples and that fact were somehow made known.
Author: Nerd 2011-04-16 10:27:02    [reply]
Nerd I dont think there is a genre for FLR, the idea is that men pay more closeer attention to what women are doing because they want FLR
Reply by: Guest 2011-04-16 22:38:55    [reply]
Guest Great insite guest. gat1207
Reply by: Gat1207 2011-04-17 12:47:06    
The following quotes a portion of a comment posting on the worshippingyourwife blog by the woman ("Lady Grey") of the womanincontrol blog (both are *.blogspot.com). I think her comments are very instructive. "You say that you hoped that your writings would lead "more husbands and boyfriends into the path of perpetual courtship and wife worship" but I daresay, Mark, that if you approached ten married vanilla women, had them read your writings on wife worship, and dared them to practice what you preach about "male management", there'd be very few husbands who could resist the new control that these women would display. "It's simply much easier to develop a wife worshipping situation if it's the woman who initiates it. There are so many husbands out there who would jump (through hoops, if told to do so) at the opportunity to be the type of husbands that are described in the "shopping trip" episodes and others that you have re-printed. The blog world is dominated by such "wannabe" male subs, and I only wish that more women would recognize the potential for a much easier and (in my opinion) sexier lifestyle."
Author: Nerd 2011-05-21 21:09:18    [reply]
Nerd Bravo! I am such a man. The lifestyle is wonderful and has enriched my life more than words can describe. I believe the world is gradually turning toward recognized female supremacy and it is about time IMHO. Very grateful for this site! Eddie
Reply by: EddieT 2013-05-27 14:53:10    [reply]
There is an amazing truth about FLR, it used to be a Matriarchy, it is found in so many corners of history, from a chess game that represented society, where the queen of course is the most powerful piece on the board, to figuers like Casear and Cleopatra, King George and Wallis Simpson, FDR and Eleonore , Most relationships fail becouse of power struggles, about finances , directions, decisions. IN a FLR woman and men come together and elect the president of the relationship, the female, and hence forth no more power struggles, as the open empoerment of the female is desired by both.
Author: Tiemo33 2011-10-08 02:11:31    [reply]
I am surprised at the need to designate a women being the member of the unit as leader as being something other than normal. I honestly believe in equality. Why does there need to be a tag put on it. I want my wife in charge. It is a simple choice. Many others feel more comfortable having the man in charge. The issue is our society which has established a male preference assumption. I am glad I joined this group. I want open and free discussion so that more men can honestly, candidly, and without shame or embarrasment acknowledge their mate as the leader. I am a very happy, loving, caring husband and I need and want my wife in charge. She gives me security in knowing someone is looking out for me and that I can depend on her. Maybe that sounds funny to some of you but why??? why can I not admit she is the better leader.
Author: MEMBER1946 2013-01-03 15:34:03    [reply]
Today I just want to say to you: Bravo for making this step into finding your heart’s desire. We have all believed to some degree the ‘normal’ were raised with. We know now it doesn’t fit and we yearn for something that feels more natural, loving and fulfilling. I found it in my female led relationships. However, like most women we look around for role models to show us the way. I started looking at a young age and found the ‘bad girls’ had a better sense of feminine power than the rest of us. I wrote about some of these women I admired in my book, “All My Heroes Were Ho’s” (Amazon). Our culture shamed them so women were afraid to take the risk and live a life out, proud but secretly admired. In part, because the praise was primarily focused on the sex and try as we might we Americans have more freedom of guns than we do sexuality. Not easy times for my sisters. Today it’s easier to identify with the sexual aspects of fun and power, but the process, learning and training is not an easy path. That’s why my focus has been on the training of Dominas to understand themselves, their opportunities and all the wonderful men that await them. The numbers here alone speak to the need for more women right? So I need your help to educate women about you and most importantly how to dominate you. Most women have little management training experience. It’s not our historical training, remember we got the submissive side shoved down our throats. We now see Margaret Thatcher’s life being both equally praised and vilified. She had to ascend through the male management, individualistic and competitive model that cost her dearly. And trying to apply business style principles to relationships is very difficult but can be learned. When you meet a new lady who you hope can ‘wield the whip’ and makes you weak at your knees with desire, MENTION ONLY that you just: “heard about a coach for women who want to be more Dominant” and leave it at that. If she asks then send her to me. You want to overhear vs. suggest which could piss her off and we know you do enough of that already. Our egos are fragile just like yours and taking the reigns takes courage. In the meantime, remember the three C’s! The First one is Compliments. Compliment a Domina’s Mind and not her body parts. Yours in the Lifestyle, Ms Serene Southern California Leather Woman 2010 Serenesin.com
Author: Serene 2013-04-16 15:11:27    [reply]
Hi my name is Sarah. I recently was encouraged by my husband to look into changing the dynamic of our relationship that we have had for 8 years. Over the last 8 month however we have made a healthy stride into the female led lifestyle. He was in a family that practiced a VERY Wife run household. So my hubby is not the kind of guy that needs to be "broken in". When I began his training and conditioning, that as well went a LOT easier that I would imagine it would go with most men. He was even taught at a young age that male masturbation will only negatively impact his health and as a secondary effect to what ejaculation tends to cause... his relationships with his partner will suffer. Anyway what I am getting at is that his family was very Female controlled and also very well run family, not at all dysfunctional which makes the Female in charge over the male at least when it falls under the nature of family... Women will have superior functioning family when she is in charge and well informed. But! For women to take charge over men in the future of this world, certain things have to fall into play. We may be the superior sex, even the sex that carries the species. But we should be changing the male mindset. We have a very distinct advantage when it comes to this and making change in the future. We raise males. We birth males. We can change the way they think and treat us. Its up to us. So lets get it done girls :)
Author: Sarah_smiley 2017-04-12 21:12:56    [reply]

 

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