As far as sex goes, in all levels the choice is with the woman. This is always the domain of the woman in any level, not just FLR.
Author: 2018-03-13 19:51:57
In level 1 and 2 it is a mutual agreement and the woman may be timid to initiate or demand the kind of sex she desires at the time. In level 3 she has more authority as to when and how she will have sex. In level 4 she has full authority as to when, how and with whom. In level 4 she will decide if her man ejactulates or not.
Author: 2018-01-26 07:09:05
At the 3-4 level of an FLR the wife would decide what sexual activities would take place, when they would take place and the frequency of each activity. Masturbation would be a no-no and fidelity would be a demand. Some sort of chastity agreement would be in place ---either the honour system of enforced chastity. The focus would ble upon the pleasure of the woman and the man's pleasure would be secondary --- unless he clearly derived some pleasure from giving her pleasure. All in all the woman would exert full control of the sex life of the couple.
Author: 2018-01-02 18:28:06
Clearly in 3/4 relationship women make the decision. How, when and if any sexual release happens is in her gift.
Author: 2017-11-21 10:52:18
Good question - not sure I can answer this question as I never really made it htat far up the "food chain"
Author: 2017-10-31 21:54:23
I believe at that level the woman would make those choices
Author: 2017-10-22 18:08:04
I feel that the woman makes the choices. It shoudl be that way. Sex is an important part of the relationship. She should make the decisions in all important matters.
Author: 2017-10-02 12:41:04
From what I read here on this site, Formal Female Leadership (Level 3 FLR) the woman is empowered to make all the choices about sex. She has insight into the motivation of her man to be pleasing, useful and fetching. As well she is aware of his sexual identity, for example "Heterosexual receptive manly male in chastity", and she is empowered to change it to something different, if she so desires. The woman considers various erotic activities she could lead or participate in, and she makes the decisions. She is in control. Her agenda is followed. Extreme Female Leadership (Level 4 FLR): The woman has asserted her ownership of her pet/slave. Her agenda includes the intense exercise of power and control. Her agenda may expand to the enjoyment of other sex partners with the support of her enthralled FLR gentleman.
Author: 2017-09-14 12:35:22
in level 4 women make all the decisions and quite rightly so. in levels 1 it's more like a normal relationship. in 2 the female is more in control and level three the man begins to surrender all control
Author: 2017-06-26 16:12:40
These levels of control in choices all intermingle Bible Understanding of me as the servant to her as the dominant one and motivating and driving makes it easier for us to travel on the same path not separate paths not stopping she's looking at one thing I'm looking it we're not going anywhere we're walking in circles but by me getting behind her and her dreams and her love her compassion we are moving forward on a journey that is incredible so as I tried to understand what I'm doing but knowing what path to follow she becomes successful at all her levels and able to lead at all the levels not just the limited level of the desire of sex which to her probably is not needed but she will not understand the full potential till she feels the benefits of seeking this relationship Style of life
Author: 2017-05-07 06:21:25
As I understand it, in levels 3 - 4 the decision is up to the woman, unless she delegates that to the man. I don't yet have personal experience with this.
Author: 2017-04-28 18:17:36
I think it comes down to how you define `sex`. Lets say in vanilla sex both partners would want to experience an orgasm. In level 3 to 4 there is a paradigm shift. The
Wwoman expects and demands much more orgasmic pleasure than she allows Hher submissive. The submissive male will gain great pleasure in being allowed intimacy but his physical ejaculation would be completely controlled by his Mmistress[mate]. The submissive male is taught not to seek, or expect an orgasm for himself. - edited by staff [reason: femdom jargon and just bad ideas - FLR does not have mistresses or submissives it has 2 people in a relationship]
Author: 2017-04-27 12:20:00
The Female in the relationship has total control over the man, and makes all the decisions, but permits the mans input, periodically?
Author: 2017-04-15 12:42:04
at level 3 and 4 only the female decides when, how sex will happen. only the female can tell and ask for sexual pleasure, while the male normally cannot decide anything himself.
Author: 2017-04-14 13:37:11
I will have to earn my being able to have sex or have sexual relief and it will be up to the Lady in my life, because she will have full control of my actions
Author: 2016-12-31 15:52:01
Being that I want a level 4 and above the sex would always be geared toward her desires level 1 i would advance to making sure the timing was right Level 2 I would ask if it is right level 3 I might assume it was the right timing and Level 4 she would choose when and with who I would be lucky to watch and participate if she allowed.
Author: 2016-12-03 18:07:18
Depends on which level right? What about level 1, level 2 and level 3. Clearly in level 4 women make all the choices or allow men to. It should be the woman in my opinion.
Author: 2016-11-04 01:29:58
Yes, it depends on the level I guess. For me level 3 (sometimes) 2 feels comfortable. I would not be comfortable with level 4 but there will be many couples who are. I think that the goal or quest of sex in FLR should be the woman's pleasure. Her orgasms and satisfaction can be paramount and not only to you but to herself too. Your pleasure is something which may well be derived from her pleasure and a side benefit of full sex such as penetration. As for the choices, like I say, it should be about her pleasure so choice should revolve around that as a central theme
Author: 2016-10-24 12:03:47
Unfortunately, if you look online at femdom, it will often lead to professional or financial Dommes and personally that does not appeal to me. Being mutually comfortable in putting your (female) partner's needs first is not the same as them dressing up wielding a whip which is more of a fantasy a la Max Mosely. You can work to please your partner in a very normal setting, which most of the time is a lot more exciting anyway
Author: 2016-10-24 11:34:00
Paradoxically, I think pleasure at one's disposal is not really pleasurable at all. If he is always to be available when she asks, where's the fun in that? That is, a little uncertainty about being able to get it adds to pleasure. This is why I suspect most people will not need to progress to level 4. Many times, women will want their man to be in control of a particular encounter, even if they are in charge of the relationship as a whole.
Author: 2016-09-27 13:31:45
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