You can start by letting go of one of the food groups at a time and then evaluating how things went, talk about how it felt, what her experience was. This can be done and then talk about which experience she wanted to take control of.
Author: 2018-01-03 23:48:55
By open and honest communication whether it’s a 50/50 relationship or an flr there is still a ultimate decision maker in a 50/50 there is much more gray area in an flr there are clearly defined roles and honest communication is invaluable in determining these things
Author: 2017-10-25 19:34:56
You can give up control by following the food groups. You should allow her to dictate your free time and be proactive so that she doesn't have to micro-manage you.
Author: 2017-10-19 06:45:58
Actually, today my wife stated that backyard gardening this year did not produce much, and it was a waste of money and time. Backyard gardening has been my domain for many years. I did not express sadness or a loss of confidence. I had experimented with a new trellis this year, and some new varieties, and truly they did not do well. Also this was a very bad year for rabbit and deer damage, and I spent $36 on a spray based on putrid eggs, but the deer kept eating the plants. So I am not going to quibble about how bad the yield was this year. I am going to offer the domain to her for planning, and buying, and I will gladly supply the labor to implement her plan. At Christmas I will buy her a good guide to gardening in our climate zone. Around March I will ask her how much she thinks should be budgeted for lawn and garden in 2018, and I will make sure the cash is available when needed. I will show support and be complimentary about her plans and try NOT TO QUESTION her decisions. If she wants to control all the budgeting and pay the bills, she can.
Author: 2017-10-10 19:33:41
Through good communication. Take steps and have good preparation. There is no need to rush into anything. Take your time.
Author: 2017-07-01 06:04:30
The control of the food groups is been given to her and her desires. I do my best to accommodate all her needs in the groups. When a issue arises she allows me to solve the issue following her recommendations. The control exchange is easily done she well knowing her interest are first and foremost in importance. Serving and obeying is so rewarding for me it leaves me wanting more.
Author: 2017-06-01 05:58:38
Well I think household chores may be a visible and enjoyable way of showing your partner that their relaxation is paramount. And taking a very different group such as sex should be a very good opportunity to show that you are focused fully on her enjoyment, needs, pleasure etc
Author: 2016-10-24 13:40:03
Well, about finances my wife prefers that I take care of it cause of my good skills. This is an example of how having control doesn't automatically means direct the work. Of course my wife can have information about the financial situation and decide how to spend money, even for big things (e.g. buyng an apartment). In free time I have to give her more than actually is. In houseold chores I do many things (such as throwing out the garbage, washing dishes) and I try to increase it.In Life direction I tryng to do like for finances. In sex I'm triyng to have cliax only when she wants and don't masturbate if I had a orgasm in the past 2 weeks.
Author: 2016-09-06 04:57:32
Seek her permission and guidance more often and eventually it will happen she will train you the right way she wants
Author: 2016-03-29 05:26:06
I would consider that he communication is the key . I will request her to know her desires and which level of FLR she is comfortable with . Accordingly I will take her advice in deciding which food groups she would like to control and which ones she would like me to look after . Once she makes the decision I will strive my best to take care that I will do justice o the role I am assigned to . I will also keep in mind hat here will be consequences if I fail in my duties and I understand that she has every right to punish me .
Author: 2015-12-11 11:18:07
I have surrendered all 5 Food Groups unconditionally to my wife and assured her when she requests my input I will do so promptly, honestly, objectively (just the facts) and enthusiastically. also I would provide my opinions and/or reservations for her to assess before she makes the final decision.
Author: 2015-07-19 11:37:40
I am ready to let go, i just need the right partner to practice with for LIFE.
Author: 2015-06-25 18:23:43
I wont need practice, I know it is best. The reason is that I learned it makes since that one person (the woman) is in total control.
Author: 2015-02-22 02:18:03
Start by seeking her advice. On different issues, seek her approval. Go one step at a time. Then proceed to the next group
Author: 2014-09-08 09:22:11
The best way is to talk about what is needed and let the other person show they can provide what is necessary for control of that group. What this does is build trust.
Author: 2014-08-18 22:29:04
its all inside . for me there is a pure freedom in submission and losing control . losing control actually gives me control .
Author: 2014-07-28 07:09:23
try doing them at limited amounts and for limited times. Then disciss the results and observations of successful aplication
Author: 2014-06-01 11:46:05
1-by volunteering, 2- practicing sex control 3-preparing myself mentally and psychologically to accept the new status and deal with the challenges from the outside world for my "deviant behavior" 4-use the mind to calm the voices that scare me or hold me back
Author: 2014-01-22 18:25:56
I will submit her to make decisions and respond when she seeks my opinions, but will not argue against her wishes or ideas. I will put her fully in charge of finances and will support her with counsel when asked. she will have full control of our love making as to time and what occurs, with her pleasure and satisfaction being paramount. I will discuss and then comply with her decisions regarding Free time and life direction.
Author: 2013-08-23 11:38:57
Free time seems, to me, to be one of the easier food groups to experiment with. We could simply begin by declaring the 60 hours of the weekend (6pm Fri-6am Mon) under her control; I would ask in advance for any slices of that time that I might need, and she might or might not grant them... and my use of that time-block would be totally transparent to her. We can agree to do it that way (or whatever way she suggests!) for one weekend, then extend or adjust over time. Free time dovetails with chores, so we'd automatically be starting to hand off control of that food group, too.
Author: 2013-03-03 00:14:10
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