Sum up in a few words "what is an FLR kind of man?"

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Sum up in a few words "what is an FLR kind of man?"

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An FLR kind of man is a man who conforms his life to fit the needs of his mate; adapts to how she thinks and feels; then learns to anticipate her needs and desires. Women are diverse so one might want him to be submissive while the other confident and strong; but at the least - in the areas you have agreed upon she will want you to be obedient and stick to your agreement. This works for all levels of FLR.
Author: Ann1000Days 2015-03-09 18:38:09   

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An FLR kind of man puts his partners interests, goals, and decisions above his own, because his partner's goals become his goals as well.
Author: SamIAm 2018-01-12 12:18:17   
They are caring, considerate, always putting the woman first in everything, being intimate with them both emotionally and physically, building them up and making them confident in themselves
Author: And123 2018-01-03 10:35:44   
An FLR man always aspires to his Lady's success.
Author: Simmer51 2018-01-02 22:03:59   
One can sum up what an FLR kind of man is in the word “gentleman”. FLR women want this and deserve it. That does not mean you are not a man’s man or that you became submissive. Be who you are but always be a gentleman. She may like your aggression from time to time and you can work that out but FLR men respect FLR women, honor them and show that in their behavior. Saying “mam” is not what I mean. In fact that makes some women feel old. Being a gentleman means being a gentle man, not pushy, but kind and reasonable. This is the single greatest principle of empowerment for her and you in FLR.
Author: Mark J 2017-12-03 00:01:43   
Mark J I like that summation. It would be a great exercise to consult the rules of chivalry.
Reply by: Simmer51 2018-01-02 21:59:38   
Understanding, respectful and always reflective of his actions on how he can improve and become a better person, husband or father. Putting his Wife or significant other first should always be a priority. Making her feel happy, safe and contented is always first and foremost.
Author: Dvbvalpha123 2017-11-29 15:45:28   
Dvbvalpha123 I would add valued to happy, safe and contented. Part of the secret to the success of anyone is to feel valued.
Reply by: Simmer51 2018-01-02 22:01:28   
A gentleman, someone who always puts her first, loyal, respectful and obedient. Her happiness always comes first and he finds joy in serving.
Author: Pj1976bj 2017-11-05 22:35:18   
Her needs become our needs
Author: Panchafinder5 2017-11-04 00:02:07   
Submissive by nature willing to give himself to serve his love for her happiness. And her happiness is our happiness
Author: Panchafinder5 2017-11-03 23:51:07   
FLR man is a man trying to understand the woman and his needs, desires and will, the real FLR man learns about the needs of the Woman before the woman and never comes late...because the FLR men he knows the thoughts of the Woman ..... the men does not love always comes late, the FLR men loves and never comes late because he knows the woman's desires and never he has to say sorry ,,,, love means never say I'm sorry.
Author: Ravanello 2017-11-02 20:25:06   
To be a gentleman a guy that honors women is chivalrous and has a positive image of women I think the kind of guy that will extend himself to show a woman he respects her
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-23 14:59:13   
An open mind and an honest heart. She will communicate exactly what she wants. IF he has trusted her, then her wants will make it work perfectly for the both of them. I am very alpha and dominant in the work world, and it is so easy to submit and trust her at all times if required.
Author: ProfessionallookingforhisBOSS 2017-10-02 11:41:00   
A gentleman who can be trusted to prioritize the needs of the woman with whom he has a connection. Characteristics of FLR men include empathy, attentiveness, the ability to anticipate, openness, resourcefulness, patience, the ability to keep promises, and the ability to be taught/trained. Behaviors would vary with the needs and desires of the FLR woman. Behaviors appropriate to pleasing FLR would include, but not be limited to: attend, obey, serve, follow, surrender.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-09-14 22:01:20   
In the end it's whatever she says it is, JK. In a basic nutshell it's a man who's willing to submit to a stronger willed female within th bounds of their relationship. There can be a lot of variety to the boundaries and methods of submission but, ultimately, it's a man who agrees to recognize his partners superiority and authority over him
Author: SeekingFLR17 2017-08-30 23:39:20   
Strong confident loyal obedient what Lady could ask for more? Good answer or too submissive? Well of course being submissive in public as well.
Author: Kenny2fun 2017-08-10 22:55:59   
A man who shows he is deeply respectful by his manners, conversation and intelligence. To be useful to a woman a man must place her comfort and assurance first and leave no doubt that he will serve her for her comfort alone. He must show he is to be trusted by what he does rather than by what he says.
Author: Philipt 2017-08-06 12:15:12   
Being a real gentleman! Always open that door, pull out that chair... etc. Always be yourself! You are the one that she wants to keep. You want to become a keeper for sure!
Author: Alwayswanted2 2017-08-05 16:09:59   
They respect there desires and try to please them because it makes them happy. They have a genuine desire to see there partner pleased and enjoy when they succeed.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 05:36:37   
A FLR man is someone who understands that his submissiveness is an inherent part of his psyhological make up and not merely a sexual fantasy to be enacted for personal gratification.
Author: SterlingServer 2017-06-22 18:17:54   
Sensitive, not controlling, but seeking harmony and love. Not seeking power, but wisdom and true emotion.
Author: Terydon 2017-06-17 14:30:04   
Manners, understanding of a better point of veiw,,look at things in her perspective , try to limite talking and be trustworthy with or without her presence.
Author: Flrjer 2017-05-04 21:37:03   


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