What are your must haves for FLR?

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What are your must haves for FLR?

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I want to know that she is the happiest that she could possibly be. Obviously thre are aspects of the relationship that I am looking for like denial, tease, chastity, cuckolding, servitude etc etc - obviously these are things that need to make her happy too.
Author: Pj1976bj 2017-11-05 23:32:16   
For myself level 2 is my minimum bar and level 3 is my goal I think it’s no accident that it’s called the sweet spot the idea of surrendering on all 5 food groups is appealing to me and negotiating how it will be administered is something I look forward to
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-25 19:41:15   
At a very minimum, you should be helpful around the house and not question her authority or her decisions. You should always support her no matter what the case.
Author: LittleMiss-Hubby 2017-10-19 06:46:54   
If I was starting over and seeking FLR, I would be prepared to invest a lot of service, communication, vulnerability, time, money and other things, and I would want the resulting relationship to be stable, enjoyable, even self-actualizing for both parties. If this question asks what would I set as a minimum bar to make the enjoyable and stable relationship more likely to be there, I would say: a good connection, good chemistry, a shared sense of humor, a similar outlook on politics and the good life, good physical health, free of addictions, comparable income-assets-class status, age difference within 12 years, paragon of mental health (free from depression, OCD, etc), without family or marital baggage, and a good bovine excrement detector.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-10-10 19:58:08   
She must be strict and willing to punish or discipline physically. If I have "fear" then I will be very obedient. I feel tat my psyche and makeup requires fear of her physical correction. I also must have nurterring from her.
Author: ProfessionallookingforhisBOSS 2017-10-02 12:37:22   
Communication, preparation, and understanding. A good flr takes practice and work but it doesn't have to be complicated, make the path clear.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:06:30   
The topic of what my needs are not important. She knows my desires and uses me to achieve her desires. She looks out and knows what is best for me. If there is any doubt she asks me. We have a loving relationship. of course my desire for the dark she keeps at bay. I adore her and try to only focus on allowing her to lead. She is good to me. Her happiness surpasses my dark desires.
Author: Flrjer 2017-06-01 06:03:35   
I don't want to divulge them all here lol but would be happy to discuss things. I agree discussing a minimum bar might help establish if it would work or not too
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 13:34:42   
Well, i think the minimum is feeling she has enough awareness of her dominant position and lives good in it. I'm confident about this.
Author: Gammagamma64 2016-09-06 05:02:34   
A must have is when she is upfront without apology that she makes the rules and loves her power so much you can see it in her smile.
Reply by: Helpme555 2016-09-20 20:42:03   
I need her acceptance that i need her leadership and that she will always led me to her way of her domain and constant reminder from her of my place in the relationship i need lovingly strict leadership
Author: Lelandswede333 2016-03-29 05:33:37   
Discipline , respect for my partner , undying love and devotion . I should be an active listener and should speak only when she asks me to . I should never be ashamed in following her lead .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-11 11:20:26   
My needs are to find somebody I can trust to explore this with. Somebody that will accept me and take and train me to please her. Somebody I can confide in and respect. I want somebody who can mold me in a loving way to be hers.
Author: Pittjoe 2015-08-20 19:29:34   
I desperately need guidance in first understanding what I lack in emotional and intimacy "openness" and then guidance in progressing from allowing myself to be vulnerable through the slightly frightening learning experiences of not knowing what I am doing to attentiveness and compliance with my wife's efforts to aiding me to be the life partner she deserves. As another MAG member wrote: this should be about me being of service and of use to a woman who already knows what she wants and is confidently capable of letting me know what that looks like. I don't need to be micro-managed. I mean that she must be capable and strong enough to lead. In order for me to be comfortable as the follower, I want to be with a woman who is truly in charge and very comfortable as the leader.
Author: Baloo.1957 2015-07-22 05:36:25   
Must haves are what the woman's needs and desires are, what is it that She Must Have?
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 19:04:54   
I don't want to be taken advantage of my kindness. Love is very important to me. Romance is important too, then last sex.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 02:19:18   
That will be lifetime of learning. Our l relationship includes a vital career. I will get a balanced living. Our relationship will include chemistry.
Author: Eric_vi 2014-09-04 10:55:40   
I need to feel loved and needed. I have to feel that I am not required to provide all the ideas and decisions alone. I need a willing sexual partner who is OK with exploring kinky sex that satisfies my soul, but mostly does the same for her, not someone that settles.
Author: Davesma 2014-08-18 22:30:34   
itsa life .... I mean you get to be happy . it is more than jsut a life style . but the whole point is to change things to get to the root of yourself and see what way you are the most happy .
Author: Michaelwarlock 2014-07-28 07:10:33   
The woman in the relationship must be confident and sure of her role in the relationship. This is not about her changing behaviors in order to suit my wants,needs, vision or FLR fantasy. Rather, this should be about me being of service and of use to a woman who already knows what she wants and is confidently capable of letting me know what that looks like. I don't need to be micro-managed. I mean that she must be capable and strong enough to lead. In order for me to be comfortable as the follower, I want to be with a woman who is truly in charge and very comfortable as the leader.
Author: NorthCa 2014-07-14 16:10:07   
fulfillment of my desire to feel like i belong to her and an intimate connection (not sexual) enhanced communication, and understanding. a stronger feeling of vulnerability to her ans a stronger feeling off her control.
Author: Wannapleaser 2014-06-01 11:49:12   

 

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