I think my minimum bar would be to have the feeling of comfort I feel when I am around strong, intelligent women . It is a feeling of security. Of course the idea of submitting to a woman is exciting, but that basic feeling of security for me is what I would seek.
Author: 2018-01-03 23:51:26
I want to know that she is the happiest that she could possibly be. Obviously thre are aspects of the relationship that I am looking for like denial, tease, chastity, cuckolding, servitude etc etc - obviously these are things that need to make her happy too.
Author: 2017-11-05 23:32:16
For myself level 2 is my minimum bar and level 3 is my goal I think it’s no accident that it’s called the sweet spot the idea of surrendering on all 5 food groups is appealing to me and negotiating how it will be administered is something I look forward to
Author: 2017-10-25 19:41:15
At a very minimum, you should be helpful around the house and not question her authority or her decisions. You should always support her no matter what the case.
Author: 2017-10-19 06:46:54
If I was starting over and seeking FLR, I would be prepared to invest a lot of service, communication, vulnerability, time, money and other things, and I would want the resulting relationship to be stable, enjoyable, even self-actualizing for both parties. If this question asks what would I set as a minimum bar to make the enjoyable and stable relationship more likely to be there, I would say: a good connection, good chemistry, a shared sense of humor, a similar outlook on politics and the good life, good physical health, free of addictions, comparable income-assets-class status, age difference within 12 years, paragon of mental health (free from depression, OCD, etc), without family or marital baggage, and a good bovine excrement detector.
Author: 2017-10-10 19:58:08
She must be strict and willing to punish or discipline physically. If I have "fear" then I will be very obedient. I feel tat my psyche and makeup requires fear of her physical correction. I also must have nurterring from her.
Author: 2017-10-02 12:37:22
Communication, preparation, and understanding. A good flr takes practice and work but it doesn't have to be complicated, make the path clear.
Author: 2017-07-01 06:06:30
The topic of what my needs are not important. She knows my desires and uses me to achieve her desires. She looks out and knows what is best for me. If there is any doubt she asks me. We have a loving relationship. of course my desire for the dark she keeps at bay. I adore her and try to only focus on allowing her to lead. She is good to me. Her happiness surpasses my dark desires.
Author: 2017-06-01 06:03:35
I don't want to divulge them all here lol but would be happy to discuss things. I agree discussing a minimum bar might help establish if it would work or not too
Author: 2016-10-24 13:34:42
Well, i think the minimum is feeling she has enough awareness of her dominant position and lives good in it. I'm confident about this.
Author: 2016-09-06 05:02:34
A must have is when she is upfront without apology that she makes the rules and loves her power so much you can see it in her smile.
Reply by: 2016-09-20 20:42:03
I need her acceptance that i need her leadership and that she will always led me to her way of her domain and constant reminder from her of my place in the relationship i need lovingly strict leadership
Author: 2016-03-29 05:33:37
Discipline , respect for my partner , undying love and devotion . I should be an active listener and should speak only when she asks me to . I should never be ashamed in following her lead .
Author: 2015-12-11 11:20:26
My needs are to find somebody I can trust to explore this with. Somebody that will accept me and take and train me to please her. Somebody I can confide in and respect. I want somebody who can mold me in a loving way to be hers.
Author: 2015-08-20 19:29:34
I desperately need guidance in first understanding what I lack in emotional and intimacy "openness" and then guidance in progressing from allowing myself to be vulnerable through the slightly frightening learning experiences of not knowing what I am doing to attentiveness and compliance with my wife's efforts to aiding me to be the life partner she deserves. As another MAG member wrote: this should be about me being of service and of use to a woman who already knows what she wants and is confidently capable of letting me know what that looks like. I don't need to be micro-managed. I mean that she must be capable and strong enough to lead. In order for me to be comfortable as the follower, I want to be with a woman who is truly in charge and very comfortable as the leader.
Author: 2015-07-22 05:36:25
Must haves are what the woman's needs and desires are, what is it that She Must Have?
Author: 2015-06-25 19:04:54
I don't want to be taken advantage of my kindness. Love is very important to me. Romance is important too, then last sex.
Author: 2015-02-22 02:19:18
That will be lifetime of learning. Our l relationship includes a vital career. I will get a balanced living. Our relationship will include chemistry.
Author: 2014-09-04 10:55:40
I need to feel loved and needed. I have to feel that I am not required to provide all the ideas and decisions alone. I need a willing sexual partner who is OK with exploring kinky sex that satisfies my soul, but mostly does the same for her, not someone that settles.
Author: 2014-08-18 22:30:34
itsa life .... I mean you get to be happy . it is more than jsut a life style . but the whole point is to change things to get to the root of yourself and see what way you are the most happy .
Author: 2014-07-28 07:10:33
The woman in the relationship must be confident and sure of her role in the relationship. This is not about her changing behaviors in order to suit my wants,needs, vision or FLR fantasy. Rather, this should be about me being of service and of use to a woman who already knows what she wants and is confidently capable of letting me know what that looks like. I don't need to be micro-managed. I mean that she must be capable and strong enough to lead. In order for me to be comfortable as the follower, I want to be with a woman who is truly in charge and very comfortable as the leader.
Author: 2014-07-14 16:10:07
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