What is the best way to broach the topic of an FLR life?

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What is the best way to broach the topic of an FLR life?

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Slowly and honestly, obviously jumping into the deep end might scare her off, talk about the benefits, what you both can get out of it. Suggest a short trial maybe
Author: Pj1976bj 2017-11-05 23:34:51   
I think the level of the flr is a start and then the must haves and like to haves and from there negotiating the food groups and the agreement are all a perfect series of things to discuss in order for a couple to get started
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-25 19:22:45   
The best thing a man can do is to realize her needs and then tend to them. Be helpful around the house and try to make her life less stressful.
Author: LittleMiss-Hubby 2017-10-19 06:44:05   
The handbook says to make an appointment, see that she has her favorite beverage, relax, ask her if she has noticed your courtly behavior towards her. If she says yes, explain you have been trying to be a good man "along these lines" ... and hand her a book to read about FLR. And keep quiet until she makes up her own mind about FLR.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-10-09 19:24:00   
Pointing out what you hope to gain out of the relationship is important and what necessities are attributed to the relationship are also important.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:00:43   
The best way to discuss things as a couple for me to listen to what she is trying to relate for me to understand. Need to ask clarifying questions. Also need to discuss in a quiet public area. like a park bench. or walking. She knows how I feel.That is all that really matters. I am here to serve and obey .
Author: Flrjer 2017-06-01 05:41:03   
Be open, talk about your needs and desires. The best way to broach this? Well this lovely website may be a good start as the premise of it suggests both parties are at least interested in a FLR union
Author: DorianGrey 2016-10-24 13:37:40   
I think that is fundamental preparing this discussion showing by facts a male FLR behaviour. The best thing if she notices a positive change and asks for, so you can start explaining how is important to you to feel better serving her and how grow up the relation
Author: Gammagamma64 2016-09-06 04:47:04   
Setting the mood ie a date to a place of mutual enjoyment and to relieve the stress of what could be next never over compensate or pressure her it go against what you really want
Author: Lelandswede333 2016-03-29 05:21:17   
I wish I knew the answer to this. I absolutely want an FLR and am scared to formally acknowledge this to her. Of course I have no idea how she will respond. Our marriage is in jeopardy and I feel this would get us back to happiness..hoping she will as well. Any other ideas that are out there I would love to here them. Hoping to formally be #2!!
Author: Want2b#2 2016-01-18 08:50:15   
I believe mos important aspect is not to force all our fantasies and kinks on to our partner . Let her take time to adjust to this lifestyle . We need to consider her desires above us . If she wishes to explore more into the FLR , we should follow .If otherwise we should wait until she gives us he green signal .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-11 11:01:27   
Start with doing research on female centric sites and materials. Put aside fantasies for the time being. Communicate with your partner. Provide her references and sites to independently review at her own pace. Communicate why the interest and benefits you perceive can be achieved with FLR.
Author: Baloo.1957 2015-07-19 11:30:30   
It is hard to find a woman with strong mind who really wants this type of relationship and is -- most importantly -- available and attracted to be with you. Therefore, if I found one, I will talk about this.
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 18:53:44   
Who should be in charge of finances. Then from that, who should be in charge of everything. Advise how woman have always been in charge of the household.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 02:15:38   
Just be open and honest about the reasons and benefits with Her. Do not turn it into a fantasy. Honesty is the key
Author: Eric_vi 2014-09-04 19:29:18   
you gotta be honest from the beginning and be strong and all grown up and your partner too . so you can say what you need to say and they can take it and not look like question mark the whole time .
Author: Michaelwarlock 2014-07-28 07:07:16   
Be honest. Let her know of your thoughts, wishes, any experience and even your fantasies on the subject. If any of you are like me, you do have fantasies about FLR and have thought about this for a long time. Be honest about that. That's a start anyway. After that, I expect that more honest discussion will develop. Be honest about yourself and then listen carefully to what she has to say on the subject.
Author: NorthCa 2014-07-10 18:14:10   
allow her to formulate hr thoughts. Listen to what she says. allow her to do herr research and arrive at her own decisions then discuss them. treat her like the leader you would like her to be. support her and encourage her in every way I can.
Author: Wannapleaser 2014-06-01 11:39:17   
A man must realize he is asking her to see a new light. The setting should be in privacy where she feels comfortable. The topic should be about the changes she has noticed in your actions. The description should be left to the book she is offered to read and let her see if she is ready when she wants to talk about it.
Author: Davesma 2014-05-07 12:35:14   
Begin to serve her openly in a way that FLR men are most likely to be asked to do by their mates. The state of being supportive is to encourage her to be your leader. I can bring up the issue of a boo that I read regarding FLR to introduce the subject.
Author: Dionn_4FD 2014-01-22 17:51:16   

 

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