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What steps can you take to show you are serious and ready?

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The surrender of the 5 food groups should be clear cut proof of my desire to serve her my hope is that doing this will help her to grow in her leadership ability and my servitude can help her and a result us soar to new heights
Author: Igor2learn 2017-10-25 19:26:37   
By serving her and living my life by her lead. Create an agreement that you both can abide by that will help you in the direction you are pursuing.
Author: LittleMiss-Hubby 2017-10-19 06:21:47   
A man might show his readiness for FLR by showing support for her leadership in a variety of ways. The handbook suggests that FLR violates social norms. Truly. So there man needs to do things to increase her comfort level and confidence. He can practice voluntarily giving control to her of Money or sex for instance. Let her take the stick of the aircraft and enjoy control.
Author: David Jeeves 2017-10-09 19:36:17   
Share something personal about yourself respectfully. Not instantly but if you feel a strong connection share something personal to demonstrate your desire for a relationship.
Author: JackStephen 2017-07-01 06:03:01   
Proving the inner need to serve her is so exciting for me. Whether its getting her coffee, back rubs, just listening to her I enjoy every minute. Shopping or just watching a movie it is exhilarating for me to be close to her. I find best way to prove my devotion is by not talking ,just listen try my best to create a awesome environment in what ever setting we are in. Look out for any need or wants she has and fulfill if possible. I serve her well in all food groups. The sex food group is difficult because she will not allow me to act out my desires. so I just follow her commands I take what I get. This I wish she would expand on to try and understand my inner desires. But I prove my devotion by putting her first always .
Author: Flrjer 2017-06-01 05:50:06   
Give benefits to a woman without expecting or asking anything in return. Be patient, prove that it is her and not another one. Prove that she is your priority, above everyhting else
Author: Mattcannes 2016-12-25 16:08:03   
Well, this is a serious question. You have to do a lot of work, hopefully never falling or giving up. To do this You have to be strongly motivated. Chastity can help You to find motivation, even if she doesn't control this issue. In the past i falled cause of my kinks inducing masturbation and loss of motivation, now I'm tryng correcting this mistake, and it seems working good
Author: Gammagamma64 2016-09-06 04:49:57   
Gradual displays if thoughtfulness that she would have never expected and not verbally boasting about all your good deeds all the time she will recognise the faster than you can say it anyway
Author: Lelandswede333 2016-03-29 05:24:39   
I will taken on all of the domestic duties because that will free my partner to take on more important responsibilities. I will never watch porn or masturbate to it . If she wishes that I stay away from my friends and closed ones , I will do so . I will check with my partner if I could take her last name after marriage . I believe that taking our Wife’s name can be a good way for a man to shed undeserved privilege and demonstrate to the whole world his commitment, devotion, and subservience. I would focus my energy and attention on her all of the time. I would treat her like a Queen, would pamper her, give her foot and body massages . I would try to make the evening Hers. Will never complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without me. Instead, I will try to understand her world of strain and pressure and her very real need to be at home and relax. I believe my goal should be to try and make sure our home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where my partner can renew herself in body and spirit.I will greet Her with complaints and problems. I will never complain if she's late home for dinner or even if she stays out all night. I will count this as minor compared to what she might have gone through that day. I will try my best to make Her comfortable , have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Also I will try to havea cool or warm drink ready for Her ,arrange her pillows and offer to take off her shoes. I will alwas speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. I will never ask her questions about her actions or question her judgement or integrity. I will just try to be there for her .
Author: Sandy_2 2015-12-11 11:06:27   
I have already surrendered the 5 Food Groups to my wife and I have asked her to temper my bad habits; consistently taking independent action and unwillingness to be open to new ideas, options, approaches (My way or the Highway). I ma taking MAG training and continue to research; regularly discussing what I find with my partner. My wife chose my time of retirement and chose our new home in a new location more closely aligned with her needs post military (access to crafts and close to our daughter's workplace so we can provide care to our new grandson).
Author: Baloo.1957 2015-07-19 11:35:17   
To become selfless and listen to her needs, not yours.
Author: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 16:53:28   
The best way is just to start by serving without being asked. Take care of the things that the woman dislikes doing first
Author: Incognito 2015-06-19 11:22:09   
Taking these course and getting this rating. Being me, I am very courteous and kind to people. Showing how I can serve the woman I love.
Author: 1goodguy2u 2015-02-22 02:16:47   
1goodguy2u That is a good idea, always be learning.
Reply by: SusanM88 2015-03-06 22:20:35   
By listening to her and following her advice. If she wants something, i will be here to serve. Good communication is the key
Author: Eric_vi 2014-09-04 11:16:20   
he is telling you he wants to give control to you and serve you . so maybe by giving them a chance . they might prove it . but of course you gotta be able to trust the guy /
Author: Michaelwarlock 2014-07-28 07:08:41   
Michaelwarlock copying an answer does not really answer a question
Reply by: SusanM88 2014-08-04 11:14:32   
SusanM88 Glad to see Ladies read all answers and can pinpoint duplicates.
Reply by: Mario4Level3 2015-06-25 19:47:52    
do the 8 things that make attractive to her.Join the groups in this site study the lessons, implement the knowledge i have gained from the lessons in the groups in this site.and putting them to practical application.
Author: Wannapleaser 2014-06-01 11:44:44   
Asking for her advice, seeking her approval, make myself more attractive, ask what help I can be, appreciate her, keep a nice home, spend time together, comfort her.
Author: Davesma 2014-05-13 15:11:44   
Davesma This was a big deal in the polls, asking what you can do to help was too. Great advice.
Reply by: SusanM88 2015-03-06 22:21:31   
1-by serving the woman like the male is already a servant. 2-seek her advice 3-express supportive attitude 4-seek her approval, this makes me a follower and more vulnerable to her. 5-make myself more attractive, by trying to dress and groom the way she likes. I can ask her what she thinks or let her choose for me what she likes. 6-asking what help I can provide for her 7-express appreciation 8-keeping the home nice and cozy 9-trying to comfort her 10-spend time together
Author: Dionn_4FD 2014-01-22 17:52:41   
I will ask her what I can do to make her live better and how I can love and best support her more in her position of leadership in our wife lead marriage. I will continue to do the loving service things for her that I already do. I will join her in doing the activities she likes to do --- dancing --- cooking --- talking ---- shopping. I will also respect her need for 'alone' time and time whither friends. I will domore than my share of the housework so she can rest after her day. Serving her a glass of wine and dinner. Telling her she is beautiful and that I love her. Touching, caressing, kissing and taking care of her intimate desires. Massaging her when she is fatigued. Satisfying her fully in forms of intimate love making, without singular regard to my release.
Author: Devoted Husband 2013-08-23 11:36:10   
By consciously listening/watching for opportunities, pro-actively offering when an opportunity arises, verbally clarifying her specific needs and expectations, and then meeting or exceeding them (but being careful to confirm in advance that 'exceeding' is OK - to avoid this variation of 'stealth service'). Then, by asking afterwards for evaluation, looking towards (what the business world calls) "continuous improvement."
Author: Mr.Bill 2013-03-01 10:27:09   


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