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Gender Male
Username Katastrophe
Reputation Points Score 27 [what is this]
Email vampierweregoat@gmail.com
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Occupation 94F - US ARMY
Location United States of America
Interests & hobbies Science, technology, philosophy, religions, anthropology, family, friends
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Dating Information
Are you looking for a new relationship ? No
General Information
tell people what you want them to know about you I am happily married, serving in the US Army in Missouri. I'm laid back and like to learn from others. My wife and I have been together for about 8 years now. We've played around with FLM ideas and 'darker play' in the past, but it was mostly recreationally. The demands and roles of our relationship have always flowed and changed to adapted to the current needs of our currwnt situation and occupation (s). Now that we're older and wiser we've decided to take more concise measures in directing our relationship in the direction we both want (FLM), regardless of circumstance. I recently went on a montg long training and we talked over Skype extensively about our new expectations and level of commitment to FLM. She seems very enthusiastic with the idea as I know I am. I retuen to her tomorrow and we'll begin experimenting with our new (ish) FLM lifestyle. I'm joining in the hopes of learning to serve my wife better but more importantly to learn how to make her happier. Another fringe benefit is it would be nice being involved with a supportive community while juat starting out. The military is not the most particularly cultivating environment for a FLM in my opinion, so new friemds and aquantences would be a valued asset. One last thing. I'm trying to correct my spelling as best as possible, but I typing onmy Android so its difficult to catch ecery wrror.
describe what you do for fun/hobbies Play video games and watch movies with my wife, play with our puppy, read books on science philosophy and religion, toying with electronics, giving massages, martial arts (I am out of practice), and pamperin my wife gratuitiously. I don´t always have massive amounts of free time and that is one area of stress for me I wish I had more time to persue my hobbies amd interests, but hopefully this site and my wife can help teach me to be more efficient with my time; or at the very least I can live vicariously tbrough my wife´s hobbies and agendas as I free up more of her time.
describe your formal education [I tried updating all fields and some saved and others did not. I will complete the blank fields again once I´m home and can ask mynwife permission to use her laptop.]
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describe the last 3 books you read I am currently reading the Bhagavad Gita, one of the holy Hindu books.
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describe the last 3 places you traveled to/visited Well, I'm just now leaving California. Before that was Michigan. And vefore that was Afghanistan.
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About FLR
How long have you been thinking about FLR ? more than 8 years
What level of FLR interests you most ? level 3
describe the perfect FLR kind of man Shoot. Thats going to be different for each couple, so I guess I´ll describe what I think I should be for my wife: kind, understanding, patient, honest, and supportive. Even though our goal is a lvl 3-4, I have plenty of good imput so long as I present it tastefully and respectfully; I must always remember that she has final say even if I don´t umderstand her reasons at the time. I should know her fantasies and desires inside and out and constantly strive to fulfill them (and not only focua on my own impulsive male desires... stupid nagging inner nature >.
describe why you want an FLR I´ve been fantasizing about being the personal servant of a female since I was 4 or 5. I´m not sure what started it or if its simply in my nature. Despite my deep rooted desire to serve females, I am still a natural leader. I know myaelf enougj to realize that I could never be truly satisfied in a traditional male hoh role or even a democeatic equal partnership. I will always have something to contribute like I would in a democraric relstionship, but I feel that I NEED to be second to her. I´m sure it would be possible to re-wire myself to be difderwnt and happy in a nother situation, but why tey and change the core of who I am if I´m happy with it? From what I´ve seen of FLRs, despite certain pitfalls, it seems more stable and promising. Add onto that, my wife is the perfect candidate for an FLM, and it helps to build her confidence and fight her own inner demons of self doubt and fear.
I have experienced FLR in a previous relationship? Yes
if you had been in a previous FLR
describe why your relationship ended
Without going into too much detail, my wife and I had a go at FLM once before. It wasn´t so much that FLM failed as we did. She was very depressed and unmotivates at the time, unable to take charge and with little to no confidence. She was willing to help me fulfill my kinks but I wanted more, I wanred the real tging. She did too, but she didmt have thr confidence and the experience neccesary. What ended up happing was me working 50-60 hours a week, coming home to clean the entire house, cook, and buy the groceries. Though thisay seem like an FLR, in reality it was not. I made all the decisions and dis all the work with little to no participation on her part. I felt completely empty because there wasn´t eniugh interaction and intemacy and she was plagues with depression and paralyzed with fear from a lack of conficende. I begged her for many months to see a therapist and consider meds, but she would never accept the help. We ended up taking a break in our relationship for about two years. It was probably one of the hardest and most painful experiences I´ve ever been through. She was and always has been my best friend. Fortunately, that time away allowed her to buold that confidence she needed on her own. I learned to become even more self sufficient and eliminated some of my more selfish behaviors. Whem we contemplated getting back together about a year ago, I only had one condition, and that was she at least ttry therapy for her depression. She was already a new person from her solo experiences, but therapy has helped immemsely and she is much happier, which in turn has made me much happier. I´m glad we ended up back together with a second chance at FLR, she truly is.my best friemnd and I´ve never loved anyone like I have her.
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Sexual orientation ? open
Body type ? Few Extra Pounds
Height ? Average
Describe your body hair ? Groomed
Hair color ? Brown
My relationship status ? Married
My age is ? 30s
Do you have an STD ? No
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I input a digital camera ? Yes
I have a highspeed internet connection ? Yes
I have internet video camera ? Yes
I am online ? 1-4 times a week

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