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Gender Male
Username Jimmysquest
Reputation Points Score 91 [what is this]
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Occupation Lawyer
Location United States of America
Interests & hobbies Music
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Dating Information
Are you looking for a new relationship ? Yes
General Information
tell people what you want them to know about you For a long time, I knew I had submissive tendencies, but I had difficulties coming to grips with it. After all, I´m in a highly competitive profession, where being in control of every detail is essential. Did I really want to turn over the control of my life to another person? I grappled with that question for a long time. After considerable thought, it occurred to me that my submissive tendencies may stem from a need for balance. Although I want (and need) to be extremely dominant in my professional life, the idea of surrendering a portion of my control is appealing to me. Once I arrived at this conclusion, I became at peace with my submissive desires.
describe what you do for fun/hobbies I enjoy playing guitar and bass. I played in semi pro bands when I was younger, now I mostly play for fun.
describe your formal education Graduated from college and law school
describe what you do to relax IĀ“d like to make it clear that while D/s is very important to me, it does not mean I donĀ“t have other interests. Here are some assorted "vanilla" facts about me in no particular order: I am a professional with an advanced degree, which means I learned a lot of useless facts in school that have no practical application in real life. I like to think of myself as intellectual and intensely curious. Music is very important to me, and I have played guitar (badly) since I was fourteen. I enjoy history, particularly first century Roman history, which I believe has important parallels to our own time. IĀ“m a fountain of useless trivia and I have a peculiar attraction to bad 70Ā“s sci-fi (Battlestar Galactica) as well as quirky British sci-fi (Red Dwarf). When I was growing up, I had a desire to live in a trailer on Malibu Beach like Jim Rockford (that was before the days when Mel Gibson bought all of Malibu). The three albums I would take if I was marooned on a desert island are (1) "Live at Leeds" by the Who; (2) "Making Movies" by Dire Straits and (3) "SecondĀ“s Out" by Genesis. I have two cats, both of whom were undoubtedly Dommes in their prior lives, as they demand complete servitude on my behalf.

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describe what you do to stay healthy and fit I try to jog daily and practice yoga.
describe what you do to earn money/career I work as a lawyer in private practice.
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About FLR
How long have you been thinking about FLR ? more than 8 years
What level of FLR interests you most ? level 3
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describe why you want an FLR To answer this question, I need to start from the premise that few seem to understand the basis of a good FLR. If I tell someone I want to be the submissive partner, they immediately think I´m weak or sexually perverted. Neither characterization is true. I´m very successful in my profession ( I´m an attorney) and I´m comfortable in my sexuality. I simply believe the woman is more suited in temperament to control the relationship. I´m tired of any discussion of a control based relationship degenerating into whips and chains discussions. I understand discipline may be occasionally warranted, but I´m definitely not looking for a "spank me I´ve been bad" type of relationship. I believe this kind of relationship can work in a day-to-day non fantasy context. To me, there would be nothing unusual about such a relationship, nor would I find it degrading to be the submissive partner. If anything, I think I would draw strength and purpose under the control of a loving partner.
I have experienced FLR in a previous relationship? No
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Sexual orientation ? heterosexual
Body type ? Average
Height ? Tall
Describe your body hair ? Groomed
Hair color ? Brown
My relationship status ? Looking
My age is ? 50s
Do you have an STD ? No
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I input a digital camera ? Yes
I have a highspeed internet connection ? Yes
I have internet video camera ? Yes
I am online ? 1-4 times a week

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