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Gender Male
Username Alpha4Life
Reputation Points Score 227 [what is this]
Email Alphasubmaleuk@gmail.com
Website https://fetlife.com/users/4325091
Occupation Self employed
Location United Kingdom (Great Britain)
Interests & hobbies Swimming, Foreign Travel, Doing as Im told by you.
Extended Profile
Dating Information
Are you looking for a new relationship ? Yes
General Information
tell people what you want them to know about you Hello, I'm a 43 year old single male, never been married, no children, and I am looking for a long term Female Led Relationship.

I'm 5 feet 10 inches tall, 36 inch waist, strong, confident and a gentleman. I'm attentive, loyal, open minded and faithful. I have never cheated on anyone, ever.

I don't look like a 'typical sub', but I have always been exceptionally submissive and obedient when with strong minded women. When with a dominant female I get docile and compliant.

I spend very little time watching normal TV but love documentaries. My favourites are Horizon, Through The Wormhole and anything else science related. I do like the big TV shows though like House of Cards, Game of Thrones, Homeland etc. I love to sail, swim, scuba dive and ride motorbikes. I also like foreign travel and nice meals out. I can hold an intelligent conversation, believe chivalry isn't dead, and I think I'm quite romantic.

I am ISFJ (“THE DEFENDER”) When it comes to romantic relationships, ISFJs kindness grows into a joy that is only found in taking care of their family and home, in being there for emotional and practical support whenever it is needed. Home is where the heart is for people with the ISFJ personality type, and in no other area of their lives do they strive with such dedication to create the harmony and beauty they wish to see in the world.
https://www.16personalities.com/isfj-personality

I'm looking for a woman who is naturally dominant and knows what she wants from a relationship. I derive my pleasure from knowing she is happy. I want to be guided, trained and moulded to make me the very best man I can be, for her. I know discipline and punishment are also useful tools if that fails, of course.

I'm happy to allow you to run the relationship and make all the major decisions in all areas, but I still need to be treated with respect. If you're looking for someone who will obey, I'm your man. If you're looking for someone who has no self respect or esteem, I'm not. I may be submissive but it doesn't mean I'm any less of a person. I will however never challenge your authority, ever.

I have totally bought into the concept of FLR's and realise the benefits that can be had on both sides from a woman taking control. I will never rebel against your authority or break the contract. I know sacrifices have to be made to ensure any relationship succeeds, and I know in an FLR it is the woman who decides what those sacrifices will be.

I am serious and ready for this, I need the firm guidance and structure that comes with an FLR. I know it won't always be easy, but the rewards far outweigh the costs. I'm looking for a loving relationship with someone who isn't unnecessarily cruel, but is strong enough to always do what's best for our relationship.

I expect rules and I expect the rules to be enforced, but I'm not someone who tests boundaries, I respect limits and know what is expected of me. I am well behaved at all times and don't enjoy pain, I'll be good. I want my next relationship to be my last and I'm willing to take any steps my partner thinks are necessary.

describe what you do for fun/hobbies Driving, sailing, motorbikes
describe your formal education Grammar school educated
describe what you do to relax Internet, eat out, day trips, foreign travel

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describe what you do to stay healthy and fit Eat reasonably healthy, enjoy swimming and hiking.
describe what you do to earn money/career Landlord of property
describe the last 3 books you read Art of War, the others just light holiday reading.
describe the last 3 movies you saw I don´t really watch many movies. I think the last one was about Pablo Escobar.
describe the last time you had dinner with friends A couple of weeks ago
describe the last 3 places you traveled to/visited Australia, Egypt, India
describe where you live In a very quiet village in Cheshire. I would be willing to relocate for the right person
About FLR
How long have you been thinking about FLR ? more than 8 years
What level of FLR interests you most ? level 4
describe the perfect FLR kind of man Someone attentive and intuitive of his lady's needs. Someone supportive, who puts her first and wants her to take control. He doesn't worry about himself and instead takes his pleasure from pleasing her.

He should want to be moulded into the perfect sub for her, he should welcome her orders as opportunities to please and he should never say ´no´.

He should allow her to control everything she wants to, because he trusts her and wants to please her. He knows she is better at it than him, and he should be obedient at all times.

He should accept any boundaries or limits she thinks are necessary for the benefit of the relationship, both willingly and gladly. He should be her confidante, cheer-leader and soul mate, he should feel incomplete without her.

He should be the first person she turns to for support when she has a bad day, knowing he will know how to help her relax and take her mind off it. He should be consistent, reliable, loyal and obedient. He should be on her side, even if she is wrong, and he should be her biggest supporter.

He should stop thinking of himself and instead accept his life has changed for the better. He should consider himself 'Hers' at all times and act accordingly, even when she is not there.

There has to be trust on both sides, and he should be happy to do whatever she wants to be certain of his loyalty, obedience and fidelity. He should put her wishes and peace of mind above anything.

He should be familiar with all aspects of FLR's and the benefits to both parties when she takes control of the 5 food groups. He should be constantly looking at self improvement and thinking of ways to please and pamper his partner, using his initiative to come up with new and interesting ways to prove his devotion.

Thank you for your time.

My email address is Alphasubmaleuk@gmail.com
No findoms, pro-dommes, or anyone who requires me to buy something (paid sites etc.) Thanks but I'm not interested.
describe why you want an FLR It suits my personality perfectly, I´m confident on the surface, but prefer to be led by women, I appreciate their strengths. I want to please her in any way possible, in return for the love she will show me. For me, that is best thrill I can get. I want to build the strongest emotional bond I can with my soul mate, I believe it is my duty to make her as happy as possible, in whatever form that may take. I believe she will not abuse me or my trust, but will take it to allow us both, and our relationship to evolve, grow and flourish. I believe my surrender is the greatest gift I can give her and I give it freely and without reservation.

I feel most at ease when my partner is in control of all the relationship decisions, women are so much better at it than men. We tend to think with our pants and not our brains. Women are able to get past that and make clear decisions. I trust their judgement much more than men, and I believe obeying their wishes is a sign of love and trust.

FLR´s have open lines of communication, any problems can be nipped in the bud before they fester and get out of control. Having one person in control avoids arguments and disagreements, and results in a more harmonious relationship for both of us. I don´t see any shame in making personal compromises for the woman I love, I see it as a sign of my devotion to her. I truly believe FLR´s are the future and the answer to our ridiculously high divorce rate.

I have experienced FLR in a previous relationship? Yes
if you had been in a previous FLR
describe why your relationship ended
I'll tell you when we chat. Nothing to worry about though.
Body
Sexual orientation ? heterosexual
Body type ? Few Extra Pounds
Height ? Tall
Describe your body hair ? Moderate
Hair color ? Brown
My relationship status ? Looking
My age is ? 40s
Do you have an STD ? No
Readiness to communicate
I input a digital camera ? Yes
I have a highspeed internet connection ? Yes
I have internet video camera ? Yes
I am online ? all the time

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