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Gender Male
Username JPM1971
Reputation Points Score 328 [what is this]
Occupation Safety Director
Location United States of America
Interests & hobbies Boating
Extended Profile
Dating Information
Are you looking for a new relationship ? Yes
General Information
tell people what you want them to know about you At work I am well respected and known as a subject matter expert in my field, my personal life lacks direction and any real goals. I make sound decisions to ensure business continuity and I make poor personal decisions that adversely affect me. I have no real friends and I do not socialize unless it is work related. I know and understand that fundamental psychological change within me must be induced in order to effect positive change. From an early age I understood I had submissive tendencies, unfortunately my immaturity impeded my ability to identify and embrace those tendencies, and unfortunately main stream society has a way of stigmatizing how we feel regarding issues that may be deep rooted within us. I have suppressed those feeling for many years and have struggled, I now understand that the suppression of the aforementioned feelings have contributed to my mental makeup. I want to embrace true guidance and direction, surrender myself in order to induce change within myself and provide real loving service.
describe what you do for fun/hobbies I own a boat and love being on the water when possible.
describe your formal education Some College / Many Technical Schools and Certificate Programs
describe what you do to relax Nothing

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describe what you do to stay healthy and fit Unfortunately, I do very little at the moment. I would really love someone to help change this aspect of my life.
describe what you do to earn money/career Currently I am a Safety / Health / Environmental / Regulatory Compliance / Quality Control Officer for an international drilling organization in the U.S. (SHERQ Officer North America) Administration and oversight for all SHERQ requirements, and any project support as needed.
describe the last 3 books you read Technical Manual / Regulatory Compliance Manual
describe the last 3 movies you saw It has been so long I cant remember
describe the last time you had dinner with friends August 2016, casual lunch with an old friend while I was traveling.
describe the last 3 places you traveled to/visited None
describe where you live I am currently living on a project in Southeast, MO.
About FLR
How long have you been thinking about FLR ? more than 8 years
What level of FLR interests you most ? beyond 4
describe the perfect FLR kind of man Loving / Respectful / Supportive / Caring / Compassionate / Loyal / Submissive / Honest.....Born to serve, wants to serve, needs to serve, desires to be of service.
describe why you want an FLR True fundamental psychological change correlates with “training”, that is what I desire, I want my goals to be the goals of a loving and caring master / wife, I want to become subjugated and have a purpose in life, that purpose being the direction of a union to obtain goals as set by my loving master / wife. I believe when I make a full commitment to someone and unconditionally surrender then compromise is no longer a solution. All aspects of my life and the goals and direction of the relationship will be determined by my loving master / wife, therefore my input is merely agreement without question and there will never be resentment resulting from compromise. As a typical male, my mental makeup understands extreme and swift correction resulting from an infraction. As of now I have no accountability, thus, infractions are nonexistent and this leads to my poor choices. The proper training and guidance would, from a loving, but firm individual effectively re-wire my circuitry in my emotionally fragile state and create a man they desire, and a man I so want to be. I understand this clearly, even if it means corporal punishment, I don’t really know what methodology one could use, I do know I am very susceptible to control under the right circumstances and I respond to strenuous stimulation that results in learning. I acquired the services of a dominatrix at one point to determine if the aforementioned tendencies were fantasy based, the experience left me unfulfilled. None of it was real, I could stop and leave at anytime, what I seek is absolutely real, my heart has led me to this point, I know I must become subjugated or I will surely die an early death as well. Poor dietary habits plague me, hot fudge sundaes for dinner only lead to feelings of guilt and worthlessness.
I have experienced FLR in a previous relationship? Yes
if you had been in a previous FLR
describe why your relationship ended
I have lived as a submissive before and the issue is one of motivation and ambition on behalf of the master. Keeping up a steady pace in the exertion of command and control takes a true commitment. This is how I see it, I am an investment, all the time and effort given to molding and shaping me into the desired product will offer significant returns. She did not have her life together and did not have the energy or motivation to steer me into compliance, I only contributed to the chaos. I made the decision to leave for both our benefits, I have slipped back into my old habits.
Sexual orientation ? bi-curious
Body type ? Few Extra Pounds
Height ? Average
Describe your body hair ? Groomed
Hair color ? Brown
My relationship status ? Looking
My age is ? 40s
Do you have an STD ? No
Readiness to communicate
I input a digital camera ? Yes
I have a highspeed internet connection ? Yes
I have internet video camera ? Yes
I am online ? daily

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