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Could it be that the men’s profiles are controlled by several different people? I was contacted here by a man who lives not far from me. He wrote me 2 messages here and one text message to my Florida phone number. I suggested that we meet and look at each other, to which he replied that he wanted to communicate via video chat. I consider this a waste of time since I have had more than one negative experience. I refused to get to know each other via video chat. At this point, we agreed that communication would not take place. All communication was 5 text messages. A week passed and he again sends me a message here, and it is as if we had never exchanged text messages and had no contact before. An exact copy of his first message to me. Surely a healthy man, unless he suffers from dementia or Parkinson’s, could so quickly forget that we exchanged text messages on a phone? What was it and how can this be explained. I want to hear from other women.
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I’m curious what kind of bad experiences you have had via video chat. Whenever a someone asks me for a tribute I ask if we can video chat for a moment so we know we are who we say we are (admittedly more for myself in those situations). It’s very possible in missing something is why I ask. Thanks in advance.
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I don’t ask anyone for a tribute, and I don’t video chat with anyone.
But you have to understand what world we live in now. Now, even to have just friendly correspondence with a stranger, you are asked to pay. I mean official sites that offer a choice of virtual friends:https:rentafriend.com, RentaCyberFriend,Friend PC, Fiverr. And these sites are just text messages with a friend.
You don’t even want to know how much a video chats costs. What must happen to a dominant woman for her to agree to arrange to video chat for “viewing” for a submissive man who is not her partner? I recommend first becoming a partner that the woman values and does not want to lose, and then ask for video chats. Dominant women do not provide loans to strangers. -
I can imagine some men are in marriages that basically, have ended. Maybe because their partners don’t like the FLR option, or have a disease, or the chemistry is just not what it was. They’re looking for better horizons. But indeed there are so many trolls, and pay bullshit, it’s harder and harder to find interested ppl here. Internet used to be great, in the previous century. Images and video is what changed it, imho, starting with illegal music downloads. Before that, all was text based.
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It’s possible that the person you’re talking to could have multiple people managing their account or they might not be keeping track of their conversations well, especially if they are messaging many people. This kind of behavior is definitely suspicious and could indicate a lack of genuine interest or a scam. Trust your instincts on this, and if something feels off, it’s always okay to walk away. It might be helpful to hear from other women’s experiences too, as they may have encountered similar situations. Stay safe and follow your gut!
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I’ve had the same situation but with women here and on other like sites. If someone only wants to communicate but a 3rd party app that is a red flag to me. IMO what you explained is a scammer.
I’ve meet face to face one real lady on this site so I know not everyone is a scammer.
My general rule is if they will not text or talk on the phone after 4-6 messages it’s a red flag.
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Jimmy have you noticed that the ratio of ads between men and women on this site is 373 to 92 ?
Women Seeking FLR Personal Ads 92
Men Seeking FLR Personal Ads 373
that is 1 to 4? and I guarantee you that 9 out of 10 women who have registration on all BDSM sites, are NOT WOMEN. These are young men from Nigeria who are trying to swindle money from naive men. -
Mistress VIP,
Yes, I noticed the 4 to 1 difference and I know 99% of Dommes are just what you said, a male in Nigeria or some other country.
I watch patterns, some of these scammers use the same patterns. I see female profiles come and go and new ones pop up and they use the same patterns as the old IDs. I know they are the same person.
Tributes, I do want to add my 2 cents here. If someone is performing an online service/session for someone then the “Tribite” is ok. After all someone is spending their time with someone.
However, If I’m just trying to meet someone and get to know each other why would one ask for a tribute to show my dedication? That is a scam to me. Hi slave, send me a $50 tribute to show your serious. That is 99.99% of the time a guy in Nigeria or some other country.
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Jimmy, The request for $50 clearly shows that this man is a scammer who is looking to take advantage of several naive men and then delete his profile, replacing it with a new one. Professional Dominas do not typically charge $50 for “to show your serious”. They usually charge $100-150 for a 30-minute conversation and $200-250 for a 1-hour phone chat. This is their job, and their rates are often even lower than those for phone sex! If you want to meet someone and they ask you for money, I wouldn’t recommend meeting with such a partner. However, there might be a situation where a real woman wouldn’t want to waste her time on you if she doesn’t see a future with you. If you’re unable to effectively communicate your worth to a potential partner who receives many other offers , the likelihood of them wanting to meet with you is slim.
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I’ve recently heard of fiver but before that I never heard of paying for a friend. I’m not too surprised though; many people are lonely. Kind of explains why some people were advertising themselves as a friend. Idk but I only heard about fiver because a streamer offering to help people get better at a game. I’m glad I haven’t sent anyone money though because everyone that’s asked me for a tribute was only asking for like $20 and lowered it to $10 then $5 when I said I couldn’t do it. Really it’d feel too surgical for me lol. Idk I’m definitely new to this 😅 I’m just trying to learn more everyday and be patient xD
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Find a video on YouTube that matches the title “Websites That Will Pay You To Be Friends ($350 Daily) | Get Paid To Chat With Lonely People”. I recommend watching this channel “Catfishing The Catfish | Chad Huber” shows well how to distinguish a real woman from a Nigerian guy who preys on “naive” men. It’s quite astonishing that many men end their correspondence with real women when they encounter a ‘beauty’ who seems to understand them perfectly, shares stunning photos, and creates the illusion of an ideal online partner ready to cater to their every desire.
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