Glossary of terms about Female Led Relationships

This list could be a lot longer. Please suggest additional definitions in the comments below.

Alpha male

Sometimes called a bull or stud is a male serving a woman as her primary lover in relationships where she has more than one male servant.

Beta male

A male who has become or has been reprogrammed to be a second male in a womans life – most often submissive and gentile.

Control

power to direct or determine; “under control” — a relation of constraint of one entity by another; — exercise authoritative control or power over; “control the budget”; — the activity of managing or exerting control over something; “the control of the mob by the police was admirable”. — dominance: the state that exists when one person or group has power over another; “her apparent dominance of her husband was really her attempt to make him pay attention to her” — command: great skillfulness and knowledge of some subject or activity; “a good command of the subject.”

Creampie (sexual act)

Is a term used in pornography to describe when a male ejaculates inside his partner’s anus or vagina. The term also refers to the visible seeping or dripping of semen from the anus or vagina. Scenes of this type have become common in both male homosexual and heterosexual pornography since the turn of the century. [wikipedia]

Cuckold (sexual act)

In the realm of FLR ‘cuckold’ means a man who allows his wife or mate to have another male lover and participates or watches, and may or may not be used to clean her vaginal area after sex with her lover. Historically cuckold is a derogatory term for a man whose wife is or has been unfaithful. [wikipedia]

Desexualized

In the realm of FLR ‘desexualized’ means limiting or removing his access to sexual release and changing his socialization and sexuality. This can be as simple as chastity, orgasm denial and use of numbing creams or thick condoms or a great as reversing his sexuality from predator to prey.

Domestic Discipline

One mate punishing another – usually by spanking, some kind of whipping and or time out.

Dominance

Ruling over a sub – in this case commanding a sub to do things.

Equal relationships

Any relationship based on a the principles where both partner have equal decision making power – they make decisions together. Sometimes called 50/50 relationship.

Female Led Relationships

Any form of females control, leadership or management of a relationship with her man. 1. where she is leading, 2. where he is willfully following, 3) both acknowledge their roles.

FemDom

Female dominance (or Femdom) is those BDSM relationships and BDSM scenes in which the dominant partner is female. Often a dominant woman, she may be prefer to be called a domme (pronounced /’d?m/), femdomme, domina, dominatrix, or dom, depending on context or personal preference. A female dominant in a master/slave relationship is often termed a mistress, not to be confused with the colloquial usage of mistress as a kept sexual partner without a similarly formalized power relationship. [wikipedia]

Goddess Worship

A form of kink which includes obedience and acts of worship such as foot worship, bowing, servant like behavior – one form of worship is tribute where the goddess gets paid by the worshiper.

Healing relationships

The type of relationship that happens “on the rebound” where people look to fill needs they did not get in a past relationship. Also called a transitional relationship.

Leader

One who has at-least one follower.

Leadership

leader – a person who rules or guides or inspires others — the activity of leading; the status of a leader; the ability to lead;

Management

manage – be in charge of, act on, or dispose of — oversee: watch and direct — do: carry on or function.

Punishment

One mate punishing another – usually by spanking, some kind of whipping and/or time out.

Submission

Submitting to a the will of another (volunteering), sometimes called willful compliance.

Traditional relationships

Any based on a term of tradition such as male Head of Household (HoH). A relationship based on religious principles or traditional core values..

Unequal relationship

Any relationship where one partner had more decision making authority than another.