leaving again

[Anonymous]

i’m a submissive man, a truly submissive man.
a single Dominant Woman should want me as i am the real deal. however i’ve spent enough time seeking a Female led Relationship and tired of being judged by people who won’t take 2 seconds to get to know me.
i can’t stop the desire to submit to Women, but i suppose in a way i am the ultimate slave.
a stepping stand to raise Women by my kindness and respect while being ultimately objectified by the fact that Women don’t realize how i add to they’re goals of empowerment.
i’m kind of locked in a cage anyway.
my desire to give of myself, to please, but being denied. it can be considered a pretty kinky situation.
i think Dominant Women and Women who want to lead in a relationship should learn to see and recognize when someone of value is there for them.
i’m leaving the whole concept of female domination behind and will be alone for the rest of my life.
it’s become too painful and it’s almost making me sick to my stomach because Domme Women lost out on what they say they wanted, and i have lost the belief that Domme Women exist.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry you feel that way. I lind of feel the same way with submissives also. I’ve had many claim they were going to do certain obligations and then not stand on their word. I def feel your frustration.

[DavidW]

As another sub I understand and felt the same frustration. This is a difficult situation and many times I have left but come back. The number of dominant women looking for submissive men are not favorable.

[thelostcabbage]

I am guessing that the kind of woman you are looking for you don’t have the confidence to approach. My wife is dominant however, even though I am submissive I had the confidence to approach her years ago. It was only after several years into our marriage that we decided to enter into an FLR.

I have always been attracted to strong, independent and confidant women who are not afraid to voice their opinions. IMO these women are more open to considering the idea of an FLR. Such ladies also are the most difficult to approach for submissive males such as myself. I took myself out of the dating game for 5 years, that included no sex so I could work on being a better man, potential partner, and more attractive to the kind of women I hoped to meet.

When I returned to dating, I met women who were more what I was looking for in a long-term partner. These ladies were also more open to considering an FLR.

I had to learn in an FLR that I don’t set the pace, tone, or time lines. My wife does. That means I may not like somethings or they may not happen in my desired time frame. However, that is part of being in an FLR. The WOMAN not the man decides when and what will occur.
Being submissive also means being a good follower. While being a good leader is harder, being a good follower also takes time and practice.
So you may get into a relationship with a woman and even if she is eventually open to an FLR remember she is in charge of what occurs in the relationship not you. Your desires and wished are secondary to hers.

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