Hi. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to introduce myself. I’m a 62 yo Jewish widower living n Albany NY. My life involved me worshiping & taking care of the needs of my wife for 30 years. Now that she has passed there’s an emptiness in me that is painful because my wife & I had such a wonderful relationship. I would be involved in the day-to-day decision making but ultimately my wife had the final word in everything we did. My greatest pleasure was in serving her & making sure she was happy & fulfilled. We didn’t call our relationship a D/s but it was clear who was in charge. I’ve always been submissive due to some early childhood formative experiences & I was most happy when I was proving the depth of my submission to her. So your post has been up for a while & I hope you’ve found the man you want, but in the event you’re still looking I thought I’d introduce myself. Shalom.