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Hello Joe,
I am really interested in knowing about how you both learned to stay on track and maintain the relationship. I can completely relate to your comments about faltering and getting off track. In my own experience the ability to keep the dynamic going and not drift back into old habits and behaviors was a problem. There was an on again and off again cycle that went on for years. We often had several weeks or months of really good connection and satisfying interactions.
When one or both of us got busy or stressed with other things, the dynamic would gradually be put aside and even given up completely for a time, only to re-start when one of us, usually me, professed the desire to return to the behaviors and relationship style that had made us happy and seemed to work so much better. We would start anew. This cycle repeated many times until we broke up and divorced.We were both independent thinkers and doers. We often spent time doing our own things and not always spending a lot of time together. Regardless, sometimes, not always, this worked well too. I enjoyed being the house husband and keeping things in order or helping her with things that made her life easier during her busy times with work or other activities that she spent time on. It was always exciting for a time to be in that supportive role.
However, when I too had a lot to do or was really involved in other things outside of the home, things went off track and sometimes completely, for weeks or months.I have to admit that masturbation was a part of the drop off for me. Once I started that, during times we were busy with our own things, there was a definite loss of the more pleasant and functional dynamic that we both seemed to want. However, I don’t think that was the whole cause. Perhaps it was and I can’t admit it. However, it was a contributing factor to be sure.
A device didn’t work. She thought it was silly. I found it uncomfortable and very impractical for leading a real life outside of the relationship. Going to the gym, swimming, public restrooms, whatever. It just didn’t work for me, especially as she thought it ridiculous as well. We did try it. I still find it to be an interesting fantasy. However, for a full real life it didn’t work for us.Anyway, thanks for your post and if you would like to share anything you learned then please do, write here or shoot me a message. Happy holidays to you.
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I am still here and 65 years old, athletic and healthy, hardworking and masculine, currently living in Northern California. I can travel and relocate.
I am still looking for one confident, dominant woman for a realistic Female Led Relationship. See the original post on this thread for more information. Ask questions or let me know what interests you. I can provide a photo once we establish communications and wish to have further discussions. -
Ok, one more try.
I am seeking a genuine connection and friendship that can develop into a real life relationship led by a dominant woman. I have experience serving a woman in charge. I know this is what works for me in relationships. Perhaps my 65 years on earth is limiting the replies here. I am healthy, active and youthful. I enjoy the outdoors, the arts and healthy living with healthy habits.
And guys, please don’t hijack this thread again. Start your own ad, or message women directly. Thanks in advance for that. -
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Hello Goddess,
There is indeed a way to add some text to your profile.
If you click on account, then on the next page scroll down. There is an area for you to write an entry describing yourself or whatever else you wish to say. I wish more people would use this. Most profiles here are empty. Perhaps it is not intuitive and not easy to find.
Yes, I am on another continent; but who knows? Communication is a good thing, regardless. I would be very interested to read what you have to say here.
Have a great day or evening.
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I find the idea of a relationship with no penetrative intercourse, or very little, to be quite interesting, erotic and very attractive. As Joy says however, this is not a platonic relationship if the male is pleasing a woman sexually in other ways.
The practice of orgasm control or denial for the man works well with this kind of sexual dynamic, especially within the context of a Female Led Relationship. In this way, the man’s pleasure is found in pleasing the female, she being the leader of the relationship, in the sexual dynamic as well as some of the other “food groups” described elsewhere on this web site.
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