[obsequious1]

Sure happy to speak by phone Newness is fine. Relationships are relationships and we have to just be outselves and ask the appropriate questions

• This reply was modified 1 year, 10 months ago by obsequious1.

[obsequious1]

Greetings ZZ,

My apologies not getting back on aboutFLR.com earlier but it was a lovely and busy holiday season. How are you? The year starting off right? Sounds like you are in the general area (would be great if Riverside County). I would love to chat, get to know you, what you are looking for and share some time in conversation. I have had experiences off and on for many years- always seemed to meet someone dominant and develop something memorable.
Yours. D

[obsequious1]

Greeting Jen

How are you? My name is Daniel, I am a single man/father aged 62. I am a retired medical professional, but as busy as I have ever been with my pursuits. I live quietly pursuing my passions and interests (writing, making music, reading as well as staying physically fit without being obsessed). Ive managed to negotiate through the FLR/BDSM community to have long term relationships with some very nice dominant women. It can be done :). I am quite happy with my life as it is and at this point know full well who I am in my life and who I am and the type of woman I want to be with in my personal relationships.

Relationships require work of course and my personal experience is that FLR honestly done can bring compatible people very very close because there is much to explore and bond over and requires a level of trust that I think can be largely overlooked in general dating.

My preference is always for jeans and comfort, good conversation in a hole-in-the-wall restaurant, and I have a real aversion to pretentious people and places. I don’t judge anyone’s choices and while opinionated and generally a pretty agreeable fellow. I live the way I like to live and am drawn to knowledge and experience based passion way more than material things.

I’d love to meet someone who appreciates me as the outside world views me but also enjoys what the world doesn’t necessarily know about my desires and need to please though I am not the least bit ashamed of my submissive heart. If any of this piques your interest I would love to hear from you.

Yours, Daniel

[obsequious1]

I can understand the frustration level that dominant women whom truly want to pursue an FLR with a man. While we as truly submissive men seek earnestly for it, there are many men whom enjoy the sexual aspect of it without the truly rewarding part of working at the relationship and personal growth from a committed relationship. Given the statistics, there are a lot of “suitors” both sincere or otherwise. A woman bold enough to declare her desires gets inundated by literally hundreds of sincere submissive men and men who want the sexual stimulation of being with a dominant female. It must be super frustrating to deal with so many inquiries and discerning which are on the level and which are not. I do not condone tributes and wouldn’t do so myself, but I also understand how a Dominant woman seeking a submissive might throw her hands up in frustration and set up tribute as an obstacle to screen folks. Exercise caution I would say.

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