[Philip]

Well, like many others here, congrats on having the balls to get where you are. There is an Audible book, Surrender,Submit,Serve. She mentions a periodic Command and Control meeting. That is a place for each party to discuss openly and calmly how things went over the last period. Whatever that period is, You nee a mechanism to ask for the chance to address your urgent concern. It’s important to not allow anger to fester and grow, especially when simple discussion can set everything right. Good luck!

[Philip]

I understand your fear. Here’s some free advice. Maybe you simply present and perform those massages as best you can. Mood lighting and music does she have a preferred scent. DO things you know that she enjoys but improve it in small ways. Maybe in being more submissive in the way you perform your duties, she may warm to the idea. But you shouldn’t pressure her. Offer a pedicure while massaging her feet. Best of luck

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