[Philip]

From the completely uninitiated, I have this to offer from the text,”Surrender, Submit,Serve Her” by Key Barret. Certainly worth read,particularly in your situation. She recommends a regularly scheduled Command and Control meeting. Just as it sounds, the two of you, discuss how last period. Performance notes, work loads specific issues feelings,inability to perform etc.This is the meeting where you discuss and correct the issues that are derailing your process. Notably his input is valid here but SHE is undisputably in control. he recognizes this and speaks only in tones of deference and the utmost respect as your QUEEN deserves. Additionally now would be the time to evaluate failures and consequences. The CNC meeting is an opportunity for him to renew his vows to his Queen.
At both the opening and closing of the CNC to formalize and remind us of our positions. A little ritual helps to set the tone.

Congratulations on getting to you present point and Best of luck in your future

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[Philip]

I’m truly greatful that your willing to considerthe inexpeienced such as myself. While my marriage predeceased my wife by 15 years the lonliness and isolation have taken their toll. Now retired,I’m alone wondering if i can ever again be the object of a woman’s affection or training. Even if I’m deemed unworthy,maybe you could contact me not as my Mistress but as one human being reaching out to another human being in pain. I have learned so much about the true intrinsic value of the amazing creature known as Woman, that FLR is the most logical construct between man and Woman as a pairing. Save me from myself and in return
I swear to you my unwavering loyalty and faithfulness

That’s quite the bold statement. I have zero real world experience I once felt I was approaching subspace i found it rather intriguing More importantly, I adore the idea of submission and body worship. Helping Her rise and supporting Her through service and worship. I feel I will work harder to please Her because my desire to please is in my bones. Concise and to the point. 62 y/o widower in Houston. Maybe we should talk (text please)713-five-4 -zero – seven -3-two-seven
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[Philip]

You can’t be Alpha if you can’t spell Alpha. Best of luck!

[Philip]

If I didn’t need the money, its a moot point. Money paid before we meet. I don’t like it. She won’t budge.

[Philip]

62 Texas seeking FLR. I have no BDSM experience. All I can offer is my loyalty,my faithfulness and my submission retired can’t relocate.

[Philip]

That’s quite the bold statement. I have zero real world experience I once felt I was approaching subspace i found it rather captivating. More importantly, I like the idea of submission and body worship. Helping Her rise and supporting Her through service and worship. I feel I will work harder to please because my desire to please is in my bones. Concise and to the point. 62 y/o widower in Houston. Maybe we should talk (text please)713-five-4 -zero – seven -3-two-seven

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[Philip]

I cant say that we’re made for each other. But it sounds we have shared some similar experiences. I can’t honestly say i’m marriage minded but LTR if we work. Nor can I relocate. I have no experience with BDSM. I’m a 62y/O widower Married 30 years with 2 adult daughters. I’m not even aware of the significance of the “D”(divorced?) in your description. I’ve read extensively and would certainly like to chat I’m available normally until 2:00AM central. seven 1 Three 5-0-4 seven three two 7. my heart, my submission,my mind are waiting for their new owner.

[Philip]

I cant say that we’re made for each other. But it sounds we have shared some similar experiences. I can’t honestly say i’m marriage minded but LTR if we work. Nor can I relocate. I have no experience with BDSM. I’m a 62y/O widower I’m not even aware of the significance of the “D” in your description. I’ve read extensively and would certainly like to chat I’m available normally until 2:00AM central. seven 1 Three 5-0-4 seven three two 7
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[Philip]

I think your title is rather elegant. It seemed to resonate a bit

[Philip]

Well, like many others here, congrats on having the balls to get where you are. There is an Audible book, Surrender,Submit,Serve. She mentions a periodic Command and Control meeting. That is a place for each party to discuss openly and calmly how things went over the last period. Whatever that period is, You nee a mechanism to ask for the chance to address your urgent concern. It’s important to not allow anger to fester and grow, especially when simple discussion can set everything right. Good luck!

[Philip]

I understand your fear. Here’s some free advice. Maybe you simply present and perform those massages as best you can. Mood lighting and music does she have a preferred scent. DO things you know that she enjoys but improve it in small ways. Maybe in being more submissive in the way you perform your duties, she may warm to the idea. But you shouldn’t pressure her. Offer a pedicure while massaging her feet. Best of luck

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