I can imagine some men are in marriages that basically, have ended. Maybe because their partners don’t like the FLR option, or have a disease, or the chemistry is just not what it was. They’re looking for better horizons. But indeed there are so many trolls, and pay bullshit, it’s harder and harder to find interested ppl here. Internet used to be great, in the previous century. Images and video is what changed it, imho, starting with illegal music downloads. Before that, all was text based.